Lessons Learned at SF BATS

Posted on August 29, 2011 by Theresa

 

After every tarot conference, I like to take time and reflect – not just on the fun or tarot techniques I discovered but but also on the more personal lessons I have learned.

This was my first SF BATS experience and I didn’t know what to expect.  Would it be like the Readers Studio?  What would be the tone of the crowd?  Would I have fun?

SF BATS was different than Readers Studio in that the vibe was more casual.  But the people were the same warm, open hearted tarot people that I have come to know through RS.  And yes, it was so much fun.

Here are some of the things I learned:

1.  AV/tech guys have my mad respect.  Andrew saved my presentation and I couldn’t have done it without him.  Thanks Andrew.

2.  Thalassa may be a funny entertainer but she is a true business thug for pulling off this event.  I salute her tireless effort and staunch spirit.  She is a true gem to the tarot community.

3.  Rachel Pollack and Anastasia Haysler are two of the most generous, kindest souls on the planet.  Special thanks to them for their extraordinary compassion.  (Sorry folks, that is private.)

4.  I need to see my tarot peeps more than once a year.  Hence, I must now add SF BATS to my schedule.  I can’t be away from my tribe for too long.

5.  The internet has connected tarot lovers in a bigger way than we can ever imagine.  Only a few years ago, my tarot world was an isolated one.  I now have a true tarot family.  Thank you, internet.

6.  Creating a tarot deck is hard work.  Mad props to all you artists.  (Thanks to Courtney Weber for enlightening me on what a labor of love it truly is.)

7.  After talking with Mary Greer about grandchildren, I am hoping my kids start thinking about it.  LOL

8.  Mercury retrograde can’t ruin everything.  This was one of the BEST trips I have ever had.

I’m sure there are more things I will uncover in the weeks ahead but for now, that’s my takeaway.

Now I am California dreaming of SF BATS 2012….

Blessings,

Theresa

http://www.thetarotlady.com

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Live Blogging From SF BATS – Day Two

Posted on August 28, 2011 by Theresa

Yesterday’s events were almost overwhelming but all of us tarot freaks were excited to soak in as much SF BATS goodness as possible today.  Once again, we started off an another welcome from Thalassa and then got down to some fun.

Dan Pelletier, Rhonda Lund and Nancy Antenucci

We were treated to a short skit starring Dan Pelletier, Rhonda Lund and Nancy Antenucci.  Nancy created this just for SF BATS and it was hilarious.  Best part?  Watching Nancy shake her groove thang all over the place.  The crowd was laughing and clapping along and just having a great time.

Unlike yesterday, we only had two sessions today.  I decided to attend Courtney Weber’s presentation.  Courtney is the creator of the stunning “Tarot of the Boroughs” deck and she gave a talk about the story behind the deck.  The audience was fascinated with the backstories about the people in the pictures (the deck is photographed with real people – including techno artist Moby!).  I was really glad I attended because it gave me the real dirt on how a deck comes together (it’s not an easy process!).

Courtney Weber

We then broke for lunch and I had two very trill companions join me for a little sushi delicacies – fab tarot author Barbara Moore and my Blog Talk homie Georgianna Boehnke!  Between bites of sushi we had lots of laughs and girl talk.  I love these guys!

Georgianna Boehnke and Barbara Moore

The crowd reconvened in the main room for raffles and more (I didn’t win any prizes because I lost my ticket almost immediately – bummer!).  And then…..I headed to room A for my lecture: Prophet To Profit – Transitioning From Tarot Hobbyist To Tarot Pro.

I’m very passionate about helping other tarot readers make a career with this work so my goal was to inspire my fellow tarot peeps and to get the fear out of running a business.  I had a bigger group than I expected and was pleasantly surprised to see that there are plenty of other tarot readers who really want to make a living doing this work.  I had so much content that I really wished I had more time (presentations were limited to 50 minutes).  This group was SO great, I could have sat and talked business with them all day (for those who know me well, I never get tired of talking about tarot – or business).

After I finished, we all headed into the main room.  I had the huge honor of sitting on a panel with tarot legends Dan Pelletier, James Wanless, James Ricklef, Rachel Pollack and Mary Greer.  To be seated next to people I respect and admire and talking tarot – it was a dream come true.  This was a high point in the conference to me.  We were chatting about our own tarot experiences and how we thought tarot has changed over the years.  The buzz was all about the technology.

The panel - Dan Pelletier, James Wanless, James Ricklef, Rachel Pollack, me and Mary Greer

After our panel finished up, Ellen Lorenzi-Prince presented Thalassa with a hedgehog decked journal signed by all of the attendees.  Thalassa teared up and a few of us were wiping away some tears too.  In that moment, we all became aware of what tarot had really become over the years – a true community.

As the conference came to a close, there were lots of hugs and love going around.  SF BATS was a joyful event and the attendees were almost reluctant to leave.  But we had homes to go to (some of us getting home later than sooner due to Hurricane Irene) and families to tend to – so everyone started to depart.

I hate leaving my tarot peeps! Here I am with Georgianna Boehnke.

As I headed back to my hotel, I felt a little sad to be leaving my tarot family.  But it’s nice to know that they are all only a conference away.

Blessings!

Theresa

© Theresa Reed | The Tarot Lady 2011

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Live Blogging From SF BATS – Day One

Posted on August 27, 2011 by Theresa

When I first arrived at SF BATS, the energy was a little bit chaotic.  Tarot people packing in, presenters finding their info and vendors setting up.  It was crazy but the energy was electric and FUN.  I knew right away that this conference was going to have a groovy vibe once we got settled in.

It all started with a hearty welcome from the Bat Queen herself, Thalassa Therese.

Thalassa Therese

At SF BATS you get a choice of a few classes per session.  Each class lasts about 50 minutes.  It is NOT easy to choose which class to take – the lineup was THAT good.  I decided to start out with a class from Thalassa.

Thalassa taught us about the shadow side of the tarot cards and how to work with them. The class was entertaining (would you expect any less from Thalassa?) but also very informative.  I learned a great technique that I am dying to share with my tarot peeps!  (The technique is this:  if you have a card you don’t like, pull another card to see how to deal with it.  Simple but effective!)

Mary Greer

My next class was with Mary Greer.  (I never want to miss a Mary class after the awesome one I took last year at RS10.)  Mary taught us about Birth cards and about how to find the year cards for important events in our lives.  After looking over the numbers, I was surprised to see how many life altering events happened to me during “Temperance” years.  And not surprised to see that the hardest year of my life happened during a “Devil” year.  Interesting.  This is something to play around with.  (By the way, Mary has a new book on Birth Cards, Who Are You In Tarot,  that will cover all of this in depth.)

For lunch break, I was able to sit down and chat with Georgianna Boehnke of The Tarot Room.  I loved working with Georgianna when I was a co-host at Beyond Worlds.  What a delight to  meet her in person and be able to put a face to that silky voice!  Georgianna rocks!

After lunch, I decided to stay in the Main room for the rest of the classes in there.  James Wanless did not disappoint.  This tarot legend taught us a fantastic new spread using his Sustain Yourself cards.  He gave us all a free card (I got the Cave).

James Wanless

This was followed by a fun class with Corrine Kenner – tarot for writers.  (My daughter, who is a writer would have LOVED this class!)  This class was interactive and all attendees got to function as parts of a Celtic Cross spread method for creating a story.  It was so much fun!

Corrine Kenner

The last class was with Joanna Powell Colbert, designer of the Gaian Tarot.  Joanna taught us a magical class on the elements – and she gave us a new spread to work with. The one thing I can say about SF BATS is the content is MEATY.  My head was swimming with information!

Joanna Powell Colbert

Good thing we got to follow up with a cocktail party!  Everyone popped downstairs for hors d’oeuvres and drinks.  The energy was lively and we all had so much fun unwinding.  Some people came out in costume – and we were treated to a live poetry performance.

Poetry slammin’ at SF BATS

Carrie Paris and Mike Hernandez

Revelers

Valentina Burton, Corrine Kenner and Rachel Pollack partying hard

Fist bumpin' with The Tarot Lady and Thalassa Therese

All in all, the first day was off da hook awesome!  Can’t wait for tomorrow.  (I’ll be doing my presentation – wish me luck!)

Blessings!

Theresa

© Theresa Reed | The Tarot Lady 2011

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PS: secret memo to Courtney – in your face!

 

 

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Live Blogging From SF BATS

Posted on August 24, 2011 by Theresa

This weekend, I’ll be doing a presentation at SF BATS (San Francisco Bay Area Tarot Symposium).  SF BATS is the oldest tarot conference in the world (celebrating 20 years this year!).

The conference is hosted by one of my tarot faves, Thalassa Therese (check out her interview here: Talkin’ Tarot With Thalassa Therese).

The lineup is full of some of tarot’s greatest: Mary Greer, Rachel Pollack, Barbara Moore, James Wells, etc…..it’s going to be amazing!  (I’m so humbled to be in such dazzling company!)

I’ll be doing my presentation on Sunday.  If you can make it, be sure to come by and say hi to me!  And if you can’t – don’t worry, I’ll be blogging live from SF BATS and posting plenty of photos.  (If you follow me on Twitter, look for my hashtag: #SFBATS).

I’m off to pack!  Blog with you soon,

Theresa

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What I’ve Learned About Tarot Through The Years

Posted on August 22, 2011 by Theresa

I’ve been in a long term tarot relationship.

In fact, it’s been a 30 year love affair that has outlasted almost every other relationship I have ever had.  (I’m very commitment-phobic and get bored easily – yet I never get sick of tarot and I dedicate considerable time to it.)

After such considerable time together, you develop a certain level of intimacy that allows you to understand your partner’s moods and quirks rather deeply.  My tarot cards have taught me a lot about how they operate.

And this is what I have learned:

You don’t have to be psychic to read tarot cards.  But tarot can help you to become more intuitive.  Practice often enough and soon enough, you’ll tap into that vast well of mystical wisdom deep within YOU.

Physical death rarely comes up in a tarot reading.  My tarot gets all touchy and creeped out and prefers to tiptoe around the subject.  I’ve had a lot of deaths around me the last 5 years and my cards were never comfortable making a prediction on anyone’s demise.  But it has been great for helping me to cope with the grieving process and I’ve gotten crystal clear communication from my deceased loved ones using tarot

Tarot is a sensitive instrument.  If you are highly anxious or obsessive, it will withdraw and shut down.  My cards are happier when I approach them with a calm and centered mind.

Tarot is never a substitute for therapy.  It can play a role in healing but it will never take the place of a licensed therapist.

Tarot does not like to beat a dead horse.  Ask the same question again and again and soon you’ll discover that they will give you the run around.  My cards have ADHD and will get very bored if you continue to pester them.  Oh – and they are not stupid.  So don’t try to ask the same thing in a new way just to get the answer you want.  You’ll get nothing.  Nada, zilch.

Timing is not a perfect science. Many things – including your choices as well as the choices of others – can effect timing.  The cards can give a general timeline but it is still your actions that determine how fast or slow something materializes.

Tarot hates agendas.  An open mind free from attachment to outcomes will lead to the clearest, most accurate answers.

Tarot cannot give you a guarantee. Your future is not written in stone. You always have a choice and you can change course at any time (and so can other people for that matter).

Each tarot deck has a unique world view.  Some of my decks are really sweet and some are kinda bad ass thuggy.  They all have a language of their own.  A diverse tarot collection allows me to broaden my knowledge and expand my tarot horizons (and have  options to suit different personalities).

Whether newly in love with your tarot deck or happily committed for many years, you’ll continuously discover new layers and depth the longer you stay together.

I’m looking forward to my 50 year anniversary one day.  I wonder how I will feel about my tarot cards then?

“The closeness of your relationships is directly proportional to the degree to which you have revealed the truth about yourself.” ~ Unknown

Blessings!

Theresa

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© Theresa Reed | The Tarot Lady 2011

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7 Tips For Getting A Better Tarot Reading

Posted on August 10, 2011 by Theresa

 

Most people come to a tarot reader because they are seeking clarity in their lives.

But there may be times when a reading won’t give you the answers you are looking for.  Is it because the reader sucked – or is it you?

In some cases a reader may indeed lack talent or perhaps have trouble making a connection to you but there are some measures you can take to get the most bang out of your tarot reading. And it begins with CLARITY on your part. (Funny how the universe works, isn’t it?)

Here’s what you need to do before you walk in the door and expect to be dazzled:

  1. Know what kind of reading you want.  There are many different approaches to tarot.  Some offer straight up predictions, some are therapeutic, some can be interactive and there are those who are only about entertainment.  Find a style that appeals to you and then begin searching for a reader who fits the bill.
  2. Pick a reader who is compatible with your energy because simply put, no reader can read for everyone.  A few tips for finding the right reader:
    1. You can go by word of mouth but a word of caution: what someone considers a “good reading” may not be your cup of tea.  Be sure to ask details about what they liked or didn’t like about the reading.
    2. If they have a website, read it carefully to see if you can get a feel for their personality.  Know their guidelines so you can honor their boundaries (ex: some readers do not answer questions about other people).
    3. Contact the reader directly and ask questions about their methods and policies.  If you feel comfortable, it’s probably a good sign that you will be compatible. (In my opinion, this is the best barometer for making your decision.)
  3. Get in the right mindset.  Approach your reading with openness. If you are coming in with a skeptical “prove it to me” attitude, you are putting your reader in a hostile and defensive position which is never conducive for a good reading.  Also, never ever get a reading if you are anxious or hysterical.  A desperate frame of mind will only hear what they want to hear, for good or for ill.
  4. Write down your questions before you come.  There is nothing worse than walking out the door and forgetting the “big question” you wanted to ask.  Having a list keeps you focused and organized and insures you get the important questions answered.
  5. Tape your reading.  This allows you to focus on the reading rather than taking notes. Plus it’s handy for reflecting later. (For the record, I prefer taking notes when I get a reading as I know I will never listen to a recording but that’s just me.)
  6. Don’t be vague. Ask specific questions.  Be direct and to the point. Also, be sure to ask questions that empower your situation (ex: “What can I do to achieve _______?”)And please, resist the urge to “test” your reader by dragging a red herring across the question. An honest request to the universe creates honest, clear answers.
  7. Give time for things to percolate.  Avoid the temptation to go back and revisit the reading without allowing enough time to pass.  Coming in and hammering the same question over and over only leads to a frustrated reader and mixed messages.  (My cards get very snotty when people are aggressively asking the same questions too often.)

In any service oriented business (yes, tarot reading is one), it is imperative that you be a good consumer.  If you’ve done your homework, you will be able to approach your reading with trust, openness and a clear agenda. And that is the perfect recipe for a great tarot reading.

Blessings!

Theresa

http://www.thetarotlady.com

http://www.tarotmentor.com

special thanks to taoxproductions for the image

© Theresa Reed | The Tarot Lady 2011

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Talkin’ Tarot With Tali Goodwin

Posted on August 3, 2011 by Theresa

Talkin’ Tarot With is a monthly feature designed to introduce my readers to different tarot readers from our wonderfully diverse community!  Each month, I’ll be asking various tarot readers 3 questions about their tarot philosophy and style, plus pointing you to their websites and blogs so that you can learn more about them!  I like to hand pick tarot readers that I feel are talented and interesting.

Loud and boisterous people may get all the attention but it’s the quiet ones in the background that I am more intrigued with.  Over the last few years, I’ve been very curious about the woman behind Tarot Professionals, marketing director Tali Goodwin.  So you can imagine my excitement when I learned she was coming to the Readers Studio in April.

When I first met Tali, I was struck by her gentle and almost ethereal presence.  She is almost like a little fairy and there is a vulnerability in her eyes that draws you in. But after spending any time with her you quickly discover there is a quiet fire underneath the sweet exterior and a fierce intelligence that shines through with every word she says.

Recently, Tali began to come out of the woodwork and step into the spotlight with her new blog, The Tarot Speakeasy.  This smart site displays her deep knowledge of tarot and gives us all a better glimpse into her world.

Tali Goodwin is the Marketing Director for Tarot Professionals Ltd and the co-author (with Marcus Katz) of Tarot Flip, Tarot Twist, Tarot Inspire (forthcoming 2011) and two innovative new tarot books for Llewellyn Worldwide, which will be published in 2012. She organises the Tarosophy Tarot Conference in the Lake District of England and writes for Tarosophist International magazine. She is the co-founder of Tarot-Town, the social network for those who simply love Tarot.

She has recently launched her unique Tarot Speakeasy blog [http://www.tarotspeakeasy.com] which is the world’s only time-travelling tarot blog – shifting lingo and slang every few months! This blog is powered by shindigtarot.com, a unique online Tarot service with video-chat and integrated Tarot cards for which Tali provides tarot, media and marketing consultancy.

She has worked previously in occupational therapy (Alzheimer’s Care) and lives with her partner, Lyn Birkbeck, a leading astrologer and author. Her practice in Reiki has been ongoing since 1994. Her favourite tarot deck at present is the New Palladini deck, followed closely by the Sun and Moon Tarot (US Games Systems Inc.).

Her passion is the enigma and mystery of Tarot, and giving it a unique voice.

Check out her answers to my questions below:

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1. What is your philosophy about tarot reading?

Tali:  My philosophy about tarot reading is that it can be a means of reconnecting to the sacred and the most divine within ourselves. The Tarot cards are possessed with the spirit of myth, mystery and wisdom which is gifted to us when we read the cards. It helps to ignite our intuition and gives it a form of expression.

I see the tarot as a liber mutus, a mute book, comprising of pictures alone, therefore we have to be the ones who give it voice. This the work of the oracle.

The Tarot is a key, the key to unlocking our own unknown and that of our past and future selves.  I see Tarot as being within the same tradition as that of the Troubadour, who would pass on their knowledge through the medium of song. I feel strongly that it is a craft which can be honed over time, like any craft, it may not seem clear at first, but with experience and good practical tarot education it will become … more accessible – across many levels.

Tarot might be seen as the universal record of the memory of the universe and when we have a Tarot reading we are sharing all the knowledge that has gone before, that is in the making, and is yet to be.

As T.S. Eliot expressed in the first poem of his Four Quartet ‘Little Giddings’:

Time past and time future
What might have been and what has been
Point to one end, which is always present

I believe that this is the gift that is Tarot.

 2.  How do you feel a client might get the most out of a reading with you?

Tali: A client would get the most out of a reading with me, in that I have the ability to hit the mark, and be succinct in my delivery. I avoid waffle! Certainly, this is what I have been told by querents!

My first ever reading was when I was part of a Marketing Event at a 5-star hotel in London for a new NBC TV series. If it is possible to find yourself accidentally doing a Tarot reading then this is exactly what I found myself doing! So my first-ever querent was a hardnosed sceptic tabloid journalist, it was entirely possible that they could have critiqued my reading in a national newspaper – so no pressure there!

I read them the message of the Blasted Tower card, and whilst they were a little bemused, they then went and had a couple of other readings and these came up with the same card! Perhaps they took away with them a reminder that the universe can be giving messages if only we would stop trying to transmit our own, and this is something that a client gets from a reading with me.

3.  What is your best piece of advice for an aspiring tarot reader?

Tali: My best piece of advice for an aspiring Tarot Reader for them to immerse themselves in the art, and the disciplines which are connected, such as numerology, astrology and even kabbalah.  Also, connect with other people in courses, conferences, online and in person – as Tarot is about engaging life not escaping it!

One of the most important things I would also advise is to attend a few courses – there is so much to learn and so many great teachers out there. You can also learn so much from your fellow students; don’t leave it for years – just do it.

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Many thanks to Tali for taking time out of her uber-busy life to chat with me!  Be sure to keep your eye on The Tarot Speakeasy  for more Tali Goodwin goodness!

Blessings!

Theresa

http://www.thetarotlady.com

http://www.tarotmentor.com

© Theresa Reed | The Tarot Lady 2011

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78 Tarot Blogs and Websites Worth Checking Out

Posted on July 26, 2011 by Theresa

My tarot students often ask me where they can get good, solid tarot information on the internet.

There’s a lot out there and sometimes it can be overwhelming to pick through the good from the bad.  So I thought I would compile a list of some of the best and brightest tarot writing and information that the world wide web has to offer.

 

  1. Tarot Eon (http://www.taroteon.com) My favorite tarot website, hands down. The voice of modern tarot.
  2. Mary Greer (http://marygreer.wordpress.com/) Tarot author Mary Greer’s blog is full of all sorts of tarot goodness – from tarot history to art – and more!
  3. Tarot Elements (http://www.tarotelements.com/) Brilliant tarot writing with a great team of tarot and astrology bloggers.
  4. Rachel Pollack (http://rachelpollack.com/) Home to tarot author and deck designer, Rachel Pollack.
  5. Tarot by Arwen (http://tarotbyarwen.com/blog/) Witty and compassionate tarot writing.
  6. Learn Tarot (http://www.learntarot.com/) A great site for beginning tarot students by author Joan Bunning.  This is the BEST place to start learning tarot.
  7. Llewellyn Unbound (http://www.llewellyn.com/blog/) This smart blog features thought provoking posts by tarot luminaries such as Barbara Moore and more.  A must visit.
  8. Tarot Town (http://www.tarot-town.com) The social networking site for tarot peeps.
  9. Tarology (http://tarology.wordpress.com/) A poetic and intellectual tarot blog by Enrique Enriquez.
  10. International Tarot Calendar (http://www.tarotcalendar.com/) The brainchild of Amy Lamash, this is the place to find out about every world wide tarot event and announcement.
  11. 78 Notes To Self (http://78notes.blogspot.com/) Ginny Hunt’s delightful tarot blog.  Smart, snappy writing.
  12. Fool Stop Tarot Blog (http://usgs.typepad.com/) A great blog by tarot deck publishers US Games.
  13. Owl’s Wings (http://www.owlsdaughter.com/owls-wings/) The beautiful posts of Beth Owl’s Daughter.
  14. Melissa’s Tarot Readings (http://melissatarot.wordpress.com/) Very well written thoughts about tarot from Melissa Tarot.
  15. Alec Satin (http://tarot.alecsatin.com/blog/) Alec has a gentle spirit and a powerful blog.
  16. Shuffle (http://corrinekenner.wordpress.com/) Corrine Kenner’s clever tarot and astrology blog.  Great tarot writing for sure.
  17. Circle Ways (http://jameswells.wordpress.com/) James Wells makes tarot deeper and proactive with this blog.  Manifest some great stuff with his guidance.
  18. Tarot Speakeasy (http://www.tarotspeakeasy.com/) A new and fabulous blog by Tali Goodwin.  Don’t miss this one.
  19. Marcia McCord (http://marciamccordtarotreader.blogspot.com/) Author and deck designer Marcia McCord shares her personal stories and more in this very intimate blog.
  20. Starcana Cosmic Dirt (http://starcana.com/blog/) Tarot affirmations, daily astrology and more makes this a complete stop for your regular astrology/tarot fix.  Starcana gives the total low down!
  21. Shivaya Wellness (http://shivayawellness.com/) Raven writes about things I wish I wrote about.  Tarot and healing for those who are really seeking.
  22. That’s Totally Tarot (http://thatstotallytarot.com/) Angelo Nasios’ fresh, modern and cheeky approach to tarot.  Tarot with guts.
  23. The Tarot Room (http://thetarotroom.com/) Delightful tarot thoughts from Georgianna Boehnke.
  24. The Tarot School (http://www.tarotschool.com/) Correspondence classes, degree programs, coaching, and Readers Studio – the biggest tarot conference around!
  25. Aeclectic Tarot (http://www.aeclectic.net/tarot/) Deck reviews with plenty of images so you can see what you are buying before you hit that “buy now” button.
  26. Gaian Soul (http://www.gaiansoul.com/) A beautiful blog from the creator of the Gaian Tarot, Joanna Powell Colbert.
  27. Dream World (http://www.ciromarchetti.com/) Gorgeous decks and art from artist Ciro Marchetti.  Simply stunning work.
  28. Tarot For Life (http://tarotforlife.com/) An eclectic tarot blog with lots of info for all tarot lovers!
  29. Priestess Tarot (http://www.priestesstarot.co.uk/) Louise Underhill is a talented writer and she uses the Wildwood Tarot – great insights from an interesting deck.
  30. Just Enough Tarot (http://justenoughtarot.com/) Mike Hernandez is a warm and lovely tarot reader with lots to share.
  31. Diary of a Tarot Reader (http://tarotspell.blogspot.com/) A fantastic blog from the talented Hilary Parry.  A smart cookie with a real down to earth attitude.
  32. Donnaleigh’s Tarot (http://donnaleigh.com) Home to Beyond Worlds host Donnaleigh and her snappy blog.  Check out the Speed Blog posts.
  33. Tarot Notes – Major and Minor (http://tarotnotes-majorandminor.blogspot.com/) Helen Howell and Zanna Star never disappoint their readers with this lovely blog.
  34. Tarot Broad (http://tarotbroad.com/) This sassy blog by Debbie Burke is full of tarot brilliance.  I love the way this woman thinks!
  35. Sasha Graham’s Tarot Diva Blog (http://tarotdiva.wordpress.com/) Magic and tarot collide in the Tarot Diva’s fun blog.
  36. James Ricklef’s Tarot Blog (http://jamesricklef.wordpress.com/) An empowering blog with a deep philosophical flair.
  37. New Paths Tarot (http://newpathstarot.com/) A newer blog by Koneta Bailey, there is a lot here to digest.  She blogs well and often.
  38. Tarot Explorer Blog (http://tarotexplorer.com/blog/) Nancy Hendrickson shares tarot wisdom in a down to earth, practical blog.
  39. Kris Waldherr News and Blog (http://kriswaldherr.com/blog/) Get the news and scoop from artist and tarotist Kris Waldherr.
  40. Carrie Paris (http://carrieparis.com/blog/) Spiritual and passionate, this blog gives you “tarot with a twist”.
  41. Daughters of Divination (http://www.dodivination.com/) Get the scoop on Thalassa and all her teachings – plus SF BATS – the oldest tarot conference!
  42. The Tarot Reader Blog (http://thetarotreader.wordpress.com/) All the way from down under, Stella Luna shares her grounded wisdom and plenty of tarot news!
  43. Tarot Passages (http://www.tarotpassages.com/) The site of Diane Wilkes.  It’s not updated much any longer but there is a wealth of info and deck reviews.
  44. Bonnie Cehovet (http://www.bonniecehovet.com/)  Enter the world of tarot author and reviewer, Bonnie Cehovet.  This is a VERY content rich site.
  45. Cat ‘N Owl (http://catnowl.com/) A blog that pushes the boundaries beyond tarot to include reiki and more!
  46. Tarot Garden (http://www.tarotgarden.com/) If you want a tarot deck, this is the place to get ‘em.  Every deck imaginable shows up here!
  47. Voyager Tarot (http://www.voyagertarot.com/) The creator of the Voyager Tarot, James Wanless.  Smart man with some great tarot concepts.
  48. Dynamic Dreamer ~ Art Weaver (http://lisahuntart.com/blog/) A nice blog by artist Lisa Hunt.  I love it when she shares her latest art work.
  49. Biddy Tarot Blog (http://www.biddytarot.com/blog/) Biddy Tarot shares tarot wisdom plus a weekly tarot card.  Sometimes they are scarily accurate!
  50. Tarot Bomb (http://tarotbomb.blogspot.com/) This blog by Andy Matzner gives thought provoking questions for each card.  A therapeutic and novel approach to tarot.
  51. Coneflower Tarot (http://www.coneflowertarot.com/) A lovely and colorful blog with Wordless Wednesday, new ways to use the tarot, and more.  Lots to explore here.
  52. Art of Change Tarot (http://artofchangetarot.wordpress.com/) Smart and therapeutic ways to work with the tarot from Carolyn Cushing.
  53. Punk Rock Psychic (http://punkrockpsychic.com/blog-2/)  OMG – I LOVE this blog.  Sassy, bright and full of attitude – this is tarot 2.0.
  54. Amethyst Tarot (http://www.amethysttarot.com./) I recently discovered this tarot blog and I am impressed by the writing.  Well done and lots to ponder.
  55. Tarot Guidance (http://tarotbycher.blogspot.com/) This blog by Cher Green has some interesting insights.  Definitely worth poking around – good stuff indeed.
  56. Readings By Dale (http://readingsbydale.com/) Dale Howard has some great stuff to share – be sure to check out her Card of the Day and her “Raise Your Glass” spread.
  57. Tarot Dame Blog (http://tarotdame.blogspot.com/) Tarot reader Kiki shares some interesting spreads and interpretations on this cool blog.  Book and deck reviews too!
  58. Alchemical Egg (http://thealchemicalegg.com/Main.html) The site of Robert Place, tarot artist and historian.  This is a smart and talented man with much to share.
  59. A Girl Called Woo (http://agirlcalledwoo.blogspot.com/) A tarot and witchcraft blog by the coolest tarot chick, Courtney Weber – the brains behind the sizzling Tarot of the Boroughs.
  60. Personal Tarot With Matt (http://personaltarotwithmatt.com/blog/) Matt Williams may be a “regular guy” but his tarot is anything but regular.  He’s new to blogging but his writing is top notch.
  61. The Tarot Game (http://thetarotgame.com/)  I love the Tarot Game!  This fun new product by Jude Alexander will enlighten, entertain and delight!  And it takes tarot from simple divination to a true bonding experience.
  62. Tarot Hermeneutics (http://tarothermeneutics.com/) Paul Nagy brings a wealth of knowledge and depth to tarot.  This is the “thinking man’s tarot”.  Smart stuff.
  63. Practical Tarot Blog (http://practicaltarotreadings.com/blog/) Can’t get enough Barbara Moore?  I can’t.  If you want more of Barbara’s great tarot thoughts, visit this site (pun intended).
  64. One Witch’s Way (http://onewitchsway.com/) Tarot thoughts and more from pagan writer Rowan Pendragon.  An enjoyable blog for all (not just pagans)!
  65. The Tarot Connection (http://tarotconnection.net/) Great tarot podcasts and more from Leisa ReFalo.
  66. Practical Astrology & Tarot (http://practicalastrologyandtarot.com/astrology-and-tarot-blog/) Astrologer and tarotist Ellen Zucker gives you the scoop on what’s happening in the cosmos as well as some juicy tarot tidbits.
  67. Big Tarot (http://www.bigtarot.net/)  A fantastic and fun site. There is a lot of information here so savor slowly.
  68. Super Tarot (http://supertarot.co.uk/) Tarot lessons with the Thoth deck from professional tarot reader and author Paul Hughes-Barlow.
  69. World Tarot Day (http://www.worldtarotday.org/) The official site for World Tarot Day.  Created by Den Elder, May 25th is the day when people the world over celebrate all things tarot.
  70. Tarotpedia (http://www.tarotpedia.com/wiki/Main_Page) The online encyclopedia of tarot.  This wiki is jam packed with everything tarot that you could imagine.  A good place to begin tarot research!
  71. Tarot Tribe (http://www.tarottribe.com) Podcasts focused on tarot education.  Excellent interviews with tarot luminaries and more!
  72. Tarot Pathways (http://tarotpathways.com/) This site features podcasts, deck reviews, tarot news and so much more.  Great writing and lots to offer all those who love tarot!
  73. Tarot Journaling (http://www.tarotjournaling.com/)  I am a big fan of keeping a tarot journal.  Corrine Kenner wrote the book on it – this companion site will get you started.
  74. Tarot Journals (http://www.tarotjournals.com/) More info on tarot journaling plus Ari Stone’s GORGEOUS and very useful tarot journals.  I love mine!
  75. In Touch Tarot (http://intouchtarot.com/blog-posts/) Up and coming tarot blogger Karen Borusiewicz just started sharing her thoughts.  I can’t wait to read more!
  76. Tarot Teachings (http://www.tarotteachings.com/)  Avia Venefica’s fantastic site for learning tarot.  Beginners and seasoned pros will find something here.
  77. Tarot Lovers (http://www.tarot-lovers.com/) An online guide to tarot cards and meanings.  This site has a lot of content to explore!
  78. Tarot Dude (http://tarotdude.com/) Book and deck reviews and lots of tarot goodness from Roger Hyttinen.  (Plus you just gotta love the name!)

Of course, this list is by no means the final word. There are many other worthy sites that you may discover in your tarot journey.  But I hope this gets you on your way with a big ole tarot world to peruse, ponder and delight!

Blessings!

Theresa

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PS In case you are new to tarot, the reason why there are only 78 sites listed is because the traditional tarot deck has 78 cards.  :)

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6 Warning Signs That Your Tarot Reader May Be A Scam Artist

Posted on July 20, 2011 by Theresa

It starts out innocently enough.

You walk into a modest, ordinary office for a tarot reading. The reader begins laying out the cards and chatting pleasantly but suddenly a dark look crosses her face.  With grave concern in her voice,  she takes your hand and starts to talk about the “negative energy” surrounding you. Suddenly her eyes become wide as she exclaims:  “someone has put something on you!  You’ve been cursed!”  You’re scared but secretly relieved.  Now you know why your life sucks.  It can’t be your choices – it has to be a curse!  It’s not your fault!

And that’s when the reader begins to lay it on thick like the worst sort of used car salesman. They begin imploring you to get a “cleansing” or “healing” (and of course, only they can do it for you).

It will “only” cost you $99.00.

Now if you are a vulnerable type (which is what the reader is hoping for), you may be frightened enough to pull that money out of your wallet on the spot and get your “healing”.  But guess what? It does not stop there.  Before you long, you’ve spent a lot of dough and added a great deal of superstitious anxiety to your life.

You’ve just been conned.  Ouch.

But before you kick yourself for being a sucker, let me tell you this: it happens more than you know and many of the people who fall for this schtick are reasonably intelligent, normal folk.   And most people who work in the psychic arts are decent, hardworking, honorable and kind.  It’s the rare few that rip people off and give honest readers a bad name.

If you know the simple warning signs, you can minimize your risk and be able to walk away with dollars (and pride) intact.  Here’s what you need to watch out for:

  1. Fishing for information.  If the reader constantly asks you questions, they are not doing a reading.  You should be the one asking the questions, not them.
  2. Heavy handed solicitation.  Calling you at home, urging you to call them, trying to lure you in – any of these tactics are a huge red flag.  A reader should NEVER bother you for business.  You should only be going to a reader when YOU feel the need to go.  Period.
  3. Dubious marketing methods.  Years ago, I had a client who got three mysterious tarot cards in the mail along with a frightening letter from a reader who claimed that they had “special information” for them and they needed to call within 7 days or they would “risk losing a major opportunity”.  Of course, this was nothing more than a ruse to get the client to call a hotline and spend money they didn’t have.  A special offer is one thing – scary mail or “urgent” emails demanding your immediate attention are another.  If you get either, throw it in the trash and/or hit delete.
  4. The “curse” line.  If a reader begins to tell you about a curse or negative energy that someone “put on you”, stop the reading right there.  This is the oldest line in the book and a total crock.  No one has the power to put a curse on you.  Your problems stem from decisions or choices that you make in your life.  And you, only you, can change course at any time you want. To believe otherwise takes your personal responsibility away from you and puts all your personal power in the hands of others.
  5. Charging you large sums of money for a “cleansing” or “healing”.  I once met a woman who went to a local con artist who demanded she give her $6000.00 to “remove her depression”.  (Needless to say, she was still depressed and six thousand dollars poorer.)  No ethical reader would EVER charge you a big fee to remove a curse, cure “negative energy” or solve your problems.  EVER.  If you really do have major emotional issues, a honest reader would refer you to the proper professionals who can help you.
  6. Swearing you to secrecy.  If a reader tells you that you cannot tell anyone about your reading or it “won’t come true” this is a sign that they are not on the up and up.  You should be able to tell anyone you please about your reading and furthermore, you should be able to tape the reading if you wish.  This is a tarot reading, not some back alley drug deal – avoid readers who treat it like one.

These general warnings should protect you from getting ripped off by one of these low-lifes.  But this bears saying again: these people are in the minority.  Most of the time, a tarot reading is a positive, fun and empowering experience and most readers and psychics sincerely want to help you.

Take your time to find a reader that you like and trust.  And always remember this: you are the only one who holds the power to your life.  Don’t let anyone ever convince you otherwise.

Blessings!

Theresa

What are warning signs you look for?  I’d love to hear your thoughts and suggestions in the comment section below:

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When Tarot Cards Try To Warn You

Posted on July 13, 2011 by Theresa

There it was again. The 8 of Cups. And I was not happy to see it.

I have a weird history with that card.  When I first started learning tarot, I thought it was a rather gentle card that suggested leaving behind worldly success for something more meaningful.  How poetic, right?

But in my own personal readings, this card has taken on a different tone.  It’s become a warning bell especially when it comes to friendships.

Let me explain.  Years ago, I was friends with a very snarky woman.  She was great fun and I enjoyed her acidic wit and sharp mind.  We bonded over mystical subjects, good food and long talks about life.  I even helped her launch a business.

One day, I decided to do a reading on the relationship.  Oddly, the 8 of Cups came up.  Hmmm….was I going to walk away?  Or did that suggest the relationship would take on a more spiritual vibration?  (I envisioned us like wizened old monks traveling the world and seeking wisdom.)  I preferred the second option, so I put those cards away and continued on, business as usual.

And then she betrayed me.  I won’t go into the details but it was the most painful ending to a friendship I had ever experienced.  It took me months to “get over it”.  But eventually, I did.  I simply moved on.

Flash forward many years later.  I meet a new friend.  We hit it off immediately and quickly form a bond over food and other common interests.  I’m thrilled and full of anticipation.

I lay out the cards to see if there is a future. And that damn 8 of Cups shows up.  My heart sinks. Once again, I try to see a positive spin here.   But there is a 7 of Swords for good measure.  I shove the cards into a dark drawer and put on my happy face.

And then I learn a repeat lesson.  Not as brutal but still an element of betrayal. Although this time, I am not so shocked.  I even try to salvage things by explaining how I feel.  Except this person doesn’t listen and just gets uncomfortable with my emotional reaction.  So I walk away, brush my shoulders off and let it go.  It took no time this time to “get over it”.   I was forewarned by the 8 of Cups so I knew this could be a possible outcome.

Last year, I made another acquaintance.  I am a naturally friendly person but I am wary of this one.  Perhaps because I can smell the potential for bullshit this time.  Things quickly take a turn in a very odd and icky direction.

So I pull out the cards.  And guess who shows up?  Yup, the 8 of Cups.  I walk away, brush my shoulders off and don’t look back.  And although I am not happy with the situation, I know I am safe.  I heeded the warning even more carefully than ever.  I am bruised but not hurt.  This time, I move on immediately.

For me, the 8 of Cups has become sort of an alarm when it turns up in any sort of friendship query.  I no longer attempt to see a rosy picture.  I have learned that for me, it is a sign to run as far away as possible.  It says: get out while the getting is good.  Turn your back and never cross that path again. This person is not safe.

I find it intriguing when certain cards become personal “omens” or warnings.  Over the years, I have had other cards that have tried to serve as an alert.  Sometimes it is obvious like The Tower.  But other times not so much (3 of Wands reversed can indicate a need to put distance in a relationship).

Every card has the potential to serve as a sign for potential good or ill to come.  Whether or not you heed the “warning” is all up to you.

Blessings!

Theresa

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