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Talkin’ Tarot With Paul LeBars

Wednesday, September 1st, 2010

Talkin’ Tarot With is a monthly feature designed to introduce my readers to different tarot readers from our wonderfully diverse community!  Each month, I’ll be asking various tarot readers 3 questions about their tarot philosophy and style, plus pointing you to their websites and blogs so that you can learn more about them!

This month, I am excited to share a very special tarot reader with you, my personal healer and friend: Paul LeBars.  I’ve had the pleasure to meet him personally and he holds a very dear spot in my heart.  Paul helped me through some difficult transitional periods in my life and I will always be grateful to him for his compassion and gifts.  Learn more about him below:

I started connecting with Paul through Twitter (it’s a fab resource for meeting fellow tarot peeps).  We both participate actively in the tarot community, so it’s not a surprise that our paths would eventually cross.  Paul is an Intuitive Counselor, Tarot Reader and Reiki Healer (a Japanese hands on healing that helps to balance mind, body and spirit) who guides his clients with gentleness and clarity.  I have found him to be a trusted friend and an incredibly talented (yet humble) healer.  In fact, he’s the my go-to person when I need a healing boost.  My experiences with his gift for Reiki has been life altering to say the least.  He helped me deal with the passing of my father and a few other major transitions.  If you are ever in need of a Reiki healing or just curious, I would heartily recommend that you use his services.

He was trained in the Usui Traditional Reiki Method and is a certified Reiki Teacher.  Paul also studies Kabbalah through the Kabbalah Center and lists Astrology, Metaphysics and other healing modalities as his interests.   In addition to all that, he is a weekly cohost on The Love More Project’s Blog Talk Radio show: Everyday Wisdom with Megan and Paul (Tuesday‘s at 11am pst), and volunteers at Reiki free clinics. He’s also a monthly contributor to The Love More Projects monthly E-zine, Love Letters (which can be found at http://thelovemoreproject.com)  Paul has a BA in English Literature with a minor in Cross Cultural Studies in Language and Art from San Francisco State University, as well as holding Certificates in all three levels of Reiki training. His mission is to empower and guide his clients to unleash the power of their Soul, have greater clarity, and lead balanced lives.  Paul offers Tarot/Oracle readings, Reiki sessions and soon – workshops on The Power Of Our Thoughts!

You can find more about Paul through these sites:

Website:  http://paullebars.com

Twitter: http://twitter.com/PAULLEBARS

Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/pages/PAUL-LEBARS/130285720341708

Check out his answers to my questions below:

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1. What is your philosophy about tarot reading?

My philosophy about Tarot reading is that it’s an amazing tool for personal growth and guidance on our soul’s journey. It carries with it timeless wisdom that includes astrology, numerology, Kabbalistic symbolism, and a range of archetypical symbols. For personal readings its great for getting a broader perspective on an issue and can help you get to know yourself better.  I believe the Tarot reader has a responsibility to share information with the querent that is for the highest good of all concerned. A good reading will confirm what the client already knows, and give guidance on how to make the best possible choices for the future. That said I don’t believe anyone should ever use a divination tool in place of their own intuition. Our intuition is our connection with the Creator/ our higher selves and is our personal GPS system in life. A good use of a Tarot reading is when you need clarification and guidance, and to build an even stronger intuition. A good Tarot reading gets you back in touch with your intuition, your own personal power.

2. How do you feel a client might get the most out of a reading with you?

A client would get the most out of a reading from me by coming to it centered, grounded and with an open mind. Sometimes we get messages during a reading that may not make sense at the time, or that we don’t want to hear. I know I’ve personally had readings that were like this, that ended up being very beneficial and powerful because they helped me make the wisest decisions. The Universe and our guides work in perfect ways, so what we are supposed to hear we will hear, however we also will only get what we are looking for by the law of attraction, so keeping an open mind is very important.

3. What is your best piece of advice for an aspiring tarot reader?

My advice for aspiring Tarot readers is to take time to learn the language that is Tarot by reading books, taking classes and getting readings yourself, then put it all away and follow your intuition when reading. It also helps talking to other readers or listening to Tarot shows such as Psychic Friends Live, or The Tarot Lady’s show to hear various perspectives on the cards, this has helped me immensely. Another tool I use is keeping a Tarot journal by pulling three cards a day for myself and seeing at the end of the day how they reflected events in the day. This was inspired by Mary K Greer’s book, Tarot For Yourself. Ultimately your relationship with the cards and deck are what matter. Every Tarot reader is a unique person with a unique life experience. How they interpret the cards is what sets them apart, otherwise the cards are just neutral with a one dimensional message. The reader brings them to life and uses them to help empower you.

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A big hug and thank you to Paul for taking time out of his busy life to answer my questions!  Make sure you visit his site, Paul LeBars to purchase a reading or Reiki session with him (he does Distance Reiki if you live outside of California).  Paul will be my guest on my Blog Talk Radio show on October 17th – be sure to tune in!

Blessings!

Theresa

The Deck And Book Nook – Paulina Tarot

Tuesday, August 24th, 2010

The Paulina Tarot is one of those decks I had high hopes for but unfortunately for me, this one fell a bit short. Paulina Cassidy is a remarkable artist and her talent shines through in this deck -  but that being said, I found this deck to be utterly impossible to read with.  Let me break it down so you see how I came to my conclusion.

The deck is the standard 78 cards and printed on very quality stock paper.  I am a high volume tarot reader so I need a sturdy deck – and US Games never skimps on quality.  Like their other offerings, the Paulina tarot has a nice glossy finish that provides the right “slip” for shuffling.  The back has a reversible image of two birds (they are kind of vintage looking, which I like).

The artist uses a pen and watercolor method that gives the cards a delicate and ethereal feel.  Some of her inspirations for the deck were the Rider Waite and New Orleans. The Mardi Gras vibe can be seen clearly in the festive way some of the characters are outfitted (The Fool is a perfect example).

The colors are muted pastels and at first glance, they are quite pretty and detailed.  However, many of the finer details are hard to see in these cards – I had to wear my glasses and look very closely to see some of the images clearly.  If you have vision troubles like I do, this is a problem.  Unlike some other decks (Rider Waite being an example), the images do not “pop” – nothing stands out and this forces me to have to look very carefully at these cards to find meaning.  That may not be a problem to some readers but I need to feel “grabbed” and inspired when I read tarot – I did not get that from these cards.

While the Rider Waite influence is strong in this deck, sometimes the artist formed her own ideas for interpretation.  This didn’t always work out so well – for example, the 6 of Swords had a muddy feeling to it, which seemed depressing to me.  Normally, I interpret the card as moving away from troubles – but in this case, the image seemed mired in muck at the bottom of an ocean.  Now that could be a new interpretation for this card, but as a traditionalist, I found this to be confusing and distracting.

Much like that 6 of Swords image, I started to feel like a stick in the mud with this deck.  Was I being too harsh?  The only way to figure that out is by doing a reading with it.  I asked the tarot “How will this deck work for me?”.  The cards I picked were Knight of Pentacles, The Hermit, The King of Wands.  At first glance, the murky colors seemed to blend each card together in a jumbled and cloudy mess and it didn’t evoke any meaning for me.  I felt frustrated and decided to turn to the little white book included with the deck.

Using some of the interpretations provided by the artist in the book, this combination suggests: reliable and steadfast, deep understanding and a time for self reflection, self-assertion and confidence. In other words, this should be a deck that I can rely on for deeper understanding and perhaps if I  put more effort into it, I will develop more confidence in working with it.  The lantern on the Hermit cards shines brightly, an indication that there is a message in these cards but I have to look a bit harder to find it.

I have no doubt that some will find this deck to be enchanting and whimsical.  I would recommend the Paulina Tarot to tarot collectors for it’s beauty or to anyone who likes finely detailed art work.  But as a workhorse deck, this is not one that I feel is useable.  It’s too distracting and not much stands out clearly.  A tarot reading needs to flow – and for me, I had to spend too much time squinting to make out the images and this lent to choppy readings.  Perhaps spending more time with the deck will cure that problem but for now, it’s going back in the box and into my tarot drawer.

I’m giving this deck one sword up, one sword down.

Blessings!

Theresa

If you feel the same way or have a different opinion on this deck, please share it in the comments section below. I’d love to hear your thoughts on it!

If I Could Talk To The Animals….

Tuesday, August 17th, 2010

If you are in my life for any extended period, sooner or later you’ll discover a little secret: my routines are not dictated by me. In fact, my life often marches to the beat of a furry pulse. Or like I prefer to say: “it is ruled by two cats with iron paws”. They are both quite expressive and efficient at letting me know what they want or need at any given moment. I’ve learned to tune in and follow their lead.

My current buddies: TaoZen and Monkey

Many other pet owners can attest to the same connection. Our four legged friends link to our hearts and find ways to communicate with us as effortlessly as we do with fellow humans. (And in some cases, better!)

The tarot can be an effective tool for ferreting out more information about our animal companions and often my clients will come in specifically to ask about them. Questions can range from “will we get a dog” to health concerns or messages from deceased pets. I find that using the tarot in this manner can help the pet owner to make better decisions or to find peace in any situation.

Let me demonstrate a few different examples so that you can see how your tarot reading could shed light on any animal related question.

Sometimes a family may be considering getting a pet for the household. For a simple yes or no, I look for cards that may suggest a “green light” such as the Ace of Cups. This would be a good sign that the time is right for welcoming a pet into the family. If they are needing more details about what kind of pet, I’ll look for the animals present in the cards – such as the dog at the heels of the Fool or the black cat sitting by the Queen of Wands. This may give a clue as to what kind would be best for the family. Court cards can also give an idea of personalities (Page of Swords for example could be a highly intelligent puppy) so the prospective pet owner can be aware of what type of temperament they may encounter. Knowing what you are getting into could prevent issues due to personality conflicts. These creative examples are a great way to help the querent make informed decisions for the best results.

If a client wants to know about a pet’s needs, I read for the pet in the same way I would read for a human. I feel that animals have feelings and needs just like us so I see little difference when I read the cards. Here’s a sample so you can see how this works. I asked tarot “what does my cat, TaoZen, need the most right now?”

The card I pulled was the King of Pentacles. This serious card reflects TaoZen’s stoic and noble personality quite well. I have often considered him to be rather mature and dignified in his mannerisms. TaoZen also likes to be in command of his fiefdom, much like a king. This card suggests to me that he wants to feel “in control” and needs to be treated with a lot of respect. The King of Pentacles is quite well dressed and seems to be living lavishly – an indicator that TaoZen likes the good life so perhaps I need to keep those treats coming and continue to give him praise, comfort and high quality items. Apparently, my cat is a yuppie. Hmmmm……

This same rule of reading tarot as if you are reading for a human can be applied to deceased pets. I believe that spirits can communicate with us. So why not the spirit of a beloved pet? Why should this be limited to humans?

To show you how well this can work, I pulled a card to ask tarot if my dear Sparkle had any messages for me from the other side. The card I picked was the 2 of Cups. This is a beautiful image of two people bringing their cups together as if in a toast. The caduceus symbol sits between them with a winged lion figure above. This card speaks of love and healing. To me, this is a sure sign that Sparkle is sending his love and letting me know that we are still connected in spirit. I always like to say that if there was ever a true soul mate in my life, it was that cat. He understood me like no other and was my fiercest protector. He didn’t like to share me with anyone and we had a bond unlike any I have ever had with any other pet. He’s been gone for 2 years and I still think of him all the time. This was the perfect card to symbolize our relationship.

I hope these creative examples can give you an idea of how you can also use tarot to find out more about your four legged or winged pals. Look beyond the package that we come in and you may see that these animal companions are no different than us. We share the same ability to love, to feel and to understand.

‘It often happens that a man is more humanely related to a cat or dog than to any human being.’  ~Henry David Thoreau

Blessings!
Theresa

I’d love to hear your insights about using tarot to read for animals. Please post your stories in the comments section below!

PS If you’d like to see an example of a reading I did about a horse’s health, please check out this link for more.

My beloved Sparkle

I dedicate this post to my late animal companion and best bud, Sparkle.  Still miss ya, Botz.

The Deck And Book Nook – Pamela Colman Smith Commemorative Set

Tuesday, August 10th, 2010

I have to admit, I am a sucker for kits.  I like anything that is smartly packaged with lots of parts and frills.  Naturally, any sort of tarot set makes me a very happy camper and I was giddy as could be when I recently acquired the Pamela Colman Smith Commemorative Set.  This gorgeous box set is well done and any tarot lover will want to add this to their collection.

The contents are packaged in a sturdy double sided box that folds out to reveal many lovely treasures inside.  There are lots of tarot goodies including:

A Smith Waite Centennial Edition Tarot Deck with a baby blue organza bag for storage

Two books: The Artwork And Times of Pamela Colman Smith by Stuart R. Kaplan and The Pictorial Key To The Tarot by Arthur Edward Waite

Three 5×7 pictures of Smith’s art, suitable for framing

1 black and white photo of Pamela Colman Smith

A supplemental fold out with a few tarot spreads

6 postcards picturing Smith’s art work

The deck is a reprint of the original 1909 deck, with dreamy muted colors and a “vintage” finish that adds an authentic retro feel.  There are many versions of the Rider Waite deck with different color schemes (Radiant Rider Waite comes to mind with its bright, energetic colors) but there is something about this version that grabs my attention and pulls me in like no other.  Perhaps it is because the turn of the century is one of my favorite eras or maybe the softer color scheme is simply easier on the eye.  Either way, I really find this faithful reproduction quite appealing.  I especially liked the reversible image on the back of the deck  – a white rose framed by Colman Smith’s signature.  There is a little blue organza bag included for storing the deck – another nice little touch that made this set very special.

“The Pictorial Key To The Tarot” by Arthur Edward Waite is a familiar book on many tarot lover’s shelves – in fact, this was one of the first tarot books that I owned when I began my own journey with the tarot. I had lost my copy and was happy to be reunited with this classic!  Even more exciting was the other book, “The Artwork and Times of Pamela Colman Smith” by Stuart R. Kaplan.  This biography was small but did not lack details.  Her life and family history are thoroughly covered and many images of Colman-Smith’s work are lovingly displayed throughout the book with notes that help the reader learn about the mediums that Colman-Smith worked with throughout her life (watercolor, ink, pencil, etc.) as well as all the different places where her work was featured (book illustrations, sheet music, magazines, and more). I was saddened to learn that even though she had great talent, she still struggled financially throughout her life and died penniless due to bad business decisions.  I found myself wondering if her work would have been forgotten if not for the tarot.  How grateful I am to know that at least one aspect of her artwork is still revered, recognized and treasured!

Lastly, U.S. Games included a fold out with tarot spreads as well as some postcards and pictures, making this kit a treasure trove and well worth the $35.00 price tag!  This is a bargain considering all that you get.  I highly recommend this set for any tarot lover or fan of Colman-Smith’s work. This would also be a lovely gift for any of the tarot fiends in your life.

I give this boxed set an enthusiastic 2 Swords Up!

Blessings!

Theresa

PS Do you have this set?  I’d love to hear what you think about it!

Talkin’ Tarot With Georgianna Boehnke

Tuesday, August 3rd, 2010

Talkin’ Tarot With is a monthly feature designed to introduce my readers to different tarot readers from our wonderfully diverse community!  Each month, I’ll be asking various tarot readers 3 questions about their tarot philosophy and style, plus pointing you to their websites and blogs so that you can learn more about them!

This month, I’d love to introduce you to Georgianna Boehnke, one of the fab co-hosts of Beyond Worlds and Psychic Friends Live.

I first learned about Georgianna through her former Blog Talk Radio show, Tarot Talk.  For many of us tarot fans, this was a godsend! Georgie and her cohost Raven Mardirosian delighted us month after month as they introduced us to well known tarot readers and authors and discussed many different facets of tarot.  (Although their show discontinued, it can still be heard in archives.)  I was drawn in by Georgie’s smooth voice and incredible tarot skills.  She’s been at the tarot game a long time and has been reading cards for almost 17 years.  Georgie said to me that she “talks, writes and thinks about them all the time”.  It certainly shows – you can feel her passion and excitement for tarot in her voice!

Although Tarot Talk ended a while ago, Georgie’s fans need not fret – recently she joined forces with Storm Cestavani on his Blog Talk Show and has also signed on as a cohost on Beyond Worlds, bringing her back on the air with more tarot goodness!

You can learn more about Georgianna at her website: http://www.thetarotroom.com

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1. What is your philosophy about tarot reading?

Tarot reading offers people an opportunity to see their own situations or thought patterns reflected back to them. It’s a fabulous system. There’s at least one card in every good deck for each of the circumstances we face in our lives. Through the process of asking a question and selecting cards we’re somehow able to clarify cloudy situations and even take a peek into the possible future of the patterns we’re living.

2. How do you feel a client might get the most out of a reading with you?

Probably by being as open to the message as possible. Avoid having expectations about what the cards are going to say. Let the story unfold and see what you think.

3. What is your best piece of advice for an aspiring tarot reader?

My best advice is to allow yourself to become obsessed with cards. Use them as much as you can, carry them around, get friendly with them. Read for yourself and others as much as possible (being sure of course to let others know you’re just learning). And don’t be afraid to play.  I’d also remind people to trust themselves. You know a lot more than you think you do.

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A big thank you to Georgianna for taking time to answer my questions!  Be sure to visit her site, The Tarot Room to purchase a reading or learn more about her.  Georgie will be a guest on my Blog Talk Radio in September.  I’m looking forward to picking her brain some more!

Blessings!

Theresa

The Deck and Book Nook: The Sun And Moon Tarot

Monday, July 26th, 2010

Illustrator Vanessa Decort has created a stunning yet simple deck with her Sun And Moon Tarot.  This latest offering from U.S. Games looks rather plain at first glance but on close inspection, there is a richness and complexity that draws you in and lends new, subtle nuances to your tarot readings.  Decort describes the deck this way: “The Sun And Moon Tarot considers universal archetypes and cultural symbols, and also incorporates the artist’s own personal symbols.”

The deck is comprised of the standard 78 cards, with Majors, Minors and Courts.  Based on the Thoth deck, it stays true to the titles that Aleister Crowley used (ex: 7 of Pentacles – Failure; Art – Temperance; Princes and Princes rather than Knights and Pages).  I’ve always been somewhat intimidated by the Thoth deck but Decort has taken that influence and infused it with an almost playful, childlike essence.  This could be because she has a background as an illustrator for children’s books or perhaps she simply wanted to deliver the wisdom of the Thoth deck in a more whimsical and  accessible manner.  I’m not sure which reason guided her work but the result is an inviting, fun deck that never loses its Thoth roots.

This is a well made deck on sturdy card stock with a somewhat matte finish.  It felt great in my hands, shuffled well and seemed built to last. This is very important to me as I tend to be hard on my decks through constant use. The back of the deck is a gorgeous black and white mandala – and it’s reversible, another small detail that I like.

Each image is framed by white borders with titles (in English) and numbers clearly printed.  The typeface is easy to read, no squinting required.  Colors are bold yet muted.    I especially liked the choices for the Minors suits – neutral, earthy tones for Earth; dark grey, burnt sienna and orange flames for Fire; rich midnight blue for Water; and light sky blue for Air.  These color schemes make sense and allow the reader to instantly know which suit they are working with before they even glance at the title.

There are strong Kabbalah and alchemy influences throughout the deck – each Major has a Hebrew letter and the elemental symbols appear on every minor.  Yogic images are scattered about – from the OM symbol in the Hermit to the dancing Shiva as the Universe (World)!  Of course, being a yogi, this is personally very appealing to me!

The Major arcana is especially rich with symbols – the yin and yang in the Temperance and the Phoenix in the Death card convey the meanings clearly.  Astrological symbols are featured throughout the Majors – for example, the Cancer symbol on the chest of the driver in The Chariot or the ram’s heads and lamb (Aries) in the Emperor.

One of the things I liked the best about this deck was the multicultural imagery.  Rather than “standard” RWS people, there are all races represented here – black, white, dark haired, redheads and more.  This gives the deck a “modern” appeal and I happen to like that as my own personal life is diverse – so seeing this detail made me feel more connected to the deck.

Despite the Thoth influence, the standard Rider Waite interpretations show up in the Minors.  Rather than pip cards, the Minors are fully illustrated with people in various postures and actions – and this makes the Minors easier to grasp.  I especially liked the image of the 10 of Wands, which shows an African woman delicately balancing a bunch of sticks on top of her head as she travels across a desert landscape.  This lends a more hopeful feel to the standard interpretation (Decort interprets it as: “Ability to adapt when overwhelmed, like reeds bending with the wind.”)

I found it odd at first that none of the images had faces.  In fact, they were blank like an Amish doll.  I am a visual person and I thought this would inhibit my ability to read these cards.  Surprisingly though I found that the symbols and the body language of the people allowed me to understand the cards easily.  And without any facial expressions to guide me, I started to find that I was less limited in my own interpretations.  For example, the 3 of Swords has an image of three swords going through a cloud which forms a thought bubble above the head of a woman who is resting her hand on her knee.  Normally I interpret this card as heartbreak or loss – but this image spoke of perhaps reflecting on a disappointment.  In a weird way, the lack of facial expressions is a bit liberating.

The Sun and Moon Tarot comes with a standard little white book but I think this deck needs a companion book as I felt there was not enough information to really grasp the possibilities that are present in this deck.  For example, I read reversals and there were no interpretations for them.  I’d like to see how the artist would interpret these.  I’d also like more information on how this deck relates to the Thoth as I feel that it could help to shed light on the Thoth and make it more approachable to those of us who shy away from it.  But these are very small, niggling requests.

After going over all those details, I always find the best way to really see if a deck is useable is by doing a reading. So I asked the deck this question: how will the Sun and Moon Tarot work for me?  I pulled the Ace of Wands.  One of the interpretations in the book was “Spiritual enlightenment and intuition”.  I feel this is an appropriate description as for me, this deck does not have any of the “same old same old” stuff that I tend to rely on – I have to really pay attention to the symbols and energy and let the faces come alive without my preconceived notions. This IS intuition in action.

I’m giving this deck two Swords up.  It is a unique and interesting deck for any tarot lover’s collection.

Blessings!

Theresa

all images used with permission from US Games Tarot

The Deck And Book Nook

Sunday, July 25th, 2010

I’m excited to reveal a new feature that I’ve been working on: The Deck And Book Nook.  This will be a bimonthly post with reviews of different tarot books and decks.  I’ve got a huge appetite for books and you’ll usually find me at home with my nose in one.  I’m more choosy with tarot decks but always open to new perspectives that each unique deck offers .  I aim to offer an honest, unbiased, and detailed description of each deck and/or book that will guide you, the consumer, in making informed choices.

I’ll be posting images to illustrate and will also include links to the authors websites if available.  I also have a “grading” system that will further define my viewpoint (a tongue and cheek nod to Siskel and Ebert):

Two Swords Up – This is an enthusiastic YES!  Buy the product!

One Sword Down/One Sword Up – This is a neutral response – some praise, some criticisms.  May only appeal to some.

Two Swords Down – A big NO.  Too many issues to make it a worthwhile investment. Pass.

I hope that you will find these reviews to be a trusted resource before you open up your pocketbook.  Look for the first review tomorrow!

Blessings!

Theresa

PS If there are any decks or books you’d like to see featured here – please email me your requests and I will try to honor them.  If you are a deck or book author and would like to have me review your creation, please email me to discuss.  I may already have it in my collection!  You can reach me at tarotlady@wi.rr.com.

images courtesy of TaoXproductions

Questionable Questions

Friday, July 23rd, 2010

During my typical day as a tarot reader, I get a wide variety of questions tossed at me by my clients.  It runs the gamut from typical romantic issues to more complex situations such as connecting with a departed loved one.  I never know what to expect and have always allowed my clients to feel as if they can bring any question to the table.

In some cases a client may ask something that pushes outside my comfort zone. This is not odd as you think as most tarot readers have guidelines about what is an acceptable question to ask and boundaries vary greatly from reader to reader. (For example, some tarot readers do not answer any questions about health while others have no issue with this.)  Each reader finds their own “code of ethics” that suits their needs and the needs of their clients.

I often find myself contemplating about what makes a question “acceptable” or “unethical”.  Are there some questions a reader should refuse to answer?  And if you are not comfortable with a question, is there a way to still help the client find direction? Can we safely have a universal “code of ethics” or should that be left up to the reader?

  1. Most tarot readers are NOT lawyers, doctors, stock brokers or licensed therapists.  We should never take the place of these professionals. That being said, we can answer general questions about these fields but it is still in the best interests of the reader and the client to refer them to a professional.  Doing otherwise puts the reader and the client in a possibly risky and legally compromising position.  I am careful about how I answer these types of questions and I always keep a list of professionals for referrals. An example: rather than give legal advice, I might look and see if the outcome of a case is favorable to a client.  That is still helpful for them but I am not assuming the role of a lawyer.
  2. Some tarot readers will not answer a question about a third party as they see this as “spying”.  I feel differently about this as giving a client insight into another person may pave the way for communication, compassion and understanding.  I encourage follow up questions such as “how can I help” which can empower the client to make better decisions regarding their relationships.  If you are not comfortable answering questions about others, let the client know and see if you can rephrase the question in a manner that still gives the client helpful information.
  3. Criminal activity is a dicey topic and giving advice here could put you in hot water should you be called to testify against a client.  In some situations, you might even be seen as party to a crime (ex: giving information on “how” to get away with an offense).    Yes, do not be surprised – criminals DO come to tarot readers seeking advice!  Typical questions may include  “am I being watched” and “who can I trust”.  But some may ask heavier questions and you may find yourself nervously turning over those cards, wondering if you are putting someone’s life at risk. This is where I have learned to draw the line.  In my opinion, if a person is seeking my services only to become a better criminal rather than a better person, then I need to disconnect.
  4. If you are uncomfortable with any question, it is best to be honest with your client.  See if you can rephrase questions in a way that still helps them get information while maintaining your boundaries.  And do not ever shame your client by saying something such as “that is against my code of ethics”. This makes the client feel judged for wanting the information they feel they need.
  5. A universal code of ethics may be difficult to apply simply because each reader is different and each client is unique. Some tarot organizations have a set of standards that their members agree to abide by.  This is not a bad idea but you may want to  contemplate if these guidelines work for you as a reader and ask if there is room for flexibility.  Do not agree to anyone else’s rules of conduct unless you are absolutely sure that you can stick with it.

Ultimately, this is all a matter of personal preference.  For myself, respect and compassion for my clients is always my number one priority.  I try to serve their needs in any way that I can as I know that sometimes this is the last place they turn to when they  need insight into their problems.  It is not my job to judge what they ask but to find a way to answer their questions with dignity and compassion.

I’d love to hear your thoughts on using the tarot to answer questions.  What do you feel is the best way to handle questionable questions?  Is there a way that you think clients should ask questions?

Blessings!

Theresa

image by Taoxproductions

A Town That’s Right For Me

Wednesday, July 21st, 2010

One of the hardest things about working in the tarot field is the isolation that some of us feel.  Often times we find ourselves without peers – especially those who may live in a rural area.  It’s not easy to connect but thanks to the advent of the internet and social media in particular, the game has begun to change.  Many of my fellow tarot readers have been delighted to find each other through this medium – and it has made our world a little more inclusive and a lot less lonely.

Recently, a new site launched that has stepped it up a notch and created a true community for us tarot lovers.  It’s called “Tarot Town” and is the brainchild of Marcus Katz and Tali Goodwin of Tarot Professionals .  Tarot Town is fun but don’t be fooled by the light tone – there is some SERIOUS tarot stuff going on here – classes, forums, discussions, groups and more!  Not only can you connect and make friends here – you can improve your skills, ask questions, learn about events and more.  If there was ever a Tarot Nirvana for us tarot freaks, I think I have found it here!

Of course, I had to ask Marcus and Tali about the creation and inspiration behind Tarot Town and this is what they had to say to me:

We were inspired to create Tarot Town by listening to the members of Tarot Professionals. We had been asked to provide a service to allow our members to network and socialise outside of the focused studies of Tarot such as Gated Spreads, the Diploma Course, Tarot Houses and other projects. When we looked at our existing forum we realised that it did not fulfil this purpose, although it is where we will continue to hold our Tarot course discussions.

We then considered our vision to promote high levels of Tarot education, and realised if we could find a way of providing such a social network, we would serve our own vision by opening it to the wider community. We also recognised that as our members had such a great deal of Tarot knowledge and experience we could connect them to those looking for help in their studies in an open and friendly fashion.

This resulted in us looking at many ways of accomplishing this aim – we reviewed existing sites, new technologies, voice/video systems, on-line teaching systems, and much more. We decided on a package of the “best of the best” even though this required a significant technical and financial investment. The site TAROT-TOWN was born from this research and our desire not to re-create the wheel.

With regard to what can we offer, there’s a line in Keat’s Hyperion which asks of the Titans, “What benefit canst thou, or all thy tribe, to the great world?” We asked ourselves the same question – as Living Oracles, what is it we bring to the world? In Tarot we remind ourselves that the Story is bigger than the individual images that arise in front of us – whether it be life or cardboard. In every divination, we are divined. We hope that Tarot Town will lead to more people coming to that experience of Tarot sooner, and deeper, through an accessible introduction. We are also shaking off the cobwebs – the Tarosophy book is all about mythbusting, and promoting brand new ideas, and Tarot Town is a reflection of that ethos, research and experience.

We’ve primarily aimed to make the Town vibrant, fun and free. There’s an optional Citizen rate of $1/month which ensures we can start to make the Town viable in the long-term and at the same time not exclude anyone on the basis of cost. Participants get access to great teaching experiences, video lessons, a one-stop window on selected Blogs and news, and most importantly peer guidance in a supportive environment. Citizens get special courses and privileges.

We are delighted that Rachel Pollack (age 13!) and many of our other Hon. Members of Tarot Professionals have joined to assist in connecting and sharing their wisdom. Our Deck Study groups are likely to have the deck designers and artists themselves in residence – such as Emily Carding in the Transparent Tarot Study Group.

There’s a readers exchange which has the unique feature of double-blind requests (you offer a reading to someone, but they don’t get informed of the request unless they offer a reading to you also) and peer-review feedback system – the Tarosophy STARS rating. We are also privileged to feature Beyond Worlds Radio Show as the Town’s official Radio Station!

Most important to our hearts is that we have provided a space for Tarot Townsfolk and Citizens to make their own home. The future of Tarot Town is in the hands of its inhabitants – it is an agile environment which will respond to the requirements of its citizens in an organic manner:

There once was an architect who did not build roads, or paths, or paving. He did not even include them in his plans and drawings. He laid grass down between the buildings which were open for all to walk.  Then as time went on, he watched where the grass was thinnest, and for where the beautiful curves and shortcuts, straight lines, dells and grooves that the passage of many people created. This was where he then created his paths – where feet naturally walked.

We have exciting plans already in pre-production for Tarot Town. We will be integrating our existing WIZIQ Learning Environment from Tarot Professionals into the Town Hekademia very soon for online courses in the Town. We are already well advanced in a 3d-Avatar environment for Tarot Conferences, Rituals, Discussions and Socialising! If you watch our promo video, you’ll see a sneak preview of the 3D world which will be ready by 2011.

Marcus Katz is the author of Tarosophy: Tarot to Engage Life, Not Escape It (pub. Salamander & Sons, August 2010) and the founder of Tarot Professionals. He is an MBA graduate, M.A. holder (Western Esotericism, University of Exeter) and currently 3-years into a 6-year PhD Thesis on the Teachings of Occult groups in the Western Esoteric Tradition. He is a therapist and trainer.

Tali Goodwin is the Marketing Director of Tarot Professionals and a member of the Chartered Institute of Marketing. Her career has also involved healthcare and occupational therapy. She has also practised Reiki healing.

No matter if you are a tarot professional, a newbie, or just curious, I’d invite you to stop by and take a look around.  You can find me as what else?  The Tarot Lady.  Hope to meet you there!

Blessings!

Theresa

Image property of Tarot Town

The Tarot Police Live Inside Of Your Head

Sunday, July 4th, 2010

Recently, the noise around the controversial topic of “tarot certification” has gotten a bit louder and rather heated.  I’ve written posts with my thoughts, and various Blog Talk Radio shows have addressed the subject as well. It was refreshing to hear and assess the many varied viewpoints and perspectives on the subject, and as positive open dialogue often does, the process has revealed a few new thoughts that have piqued my interest and raised new concerns.

Some of the people who were pro-certification were unable to articulate how certification would serve the tarot community.  And then there were those who viewed certification as being “for the consumer” and a way to make the tarot reader “accountable”. Let’s pause and think about that for a minute. In my opinion, these statements present some serious questions that need to be answered.

First of all, words mean things. Words that are meant to sound nice and compelling on a brochure or one page web pitch for an organization are often glanced over without much critical attention paid to the actual practical implications, processes and actions they entail. From time to time, we all tend to get lost between glossy imagery, ad copy and our own fantasies of what a benign and wonderful organization might be like, but what is important is what those words actually mean for those who decide to actually sign on.

For instance, what exactly does “accountability” mean for tarot readers?  When someone says that their organization will hold a reader “accountable” how exactly do they intend to do that? And for what?  And with what financial backup?  What authority do they have? Tarot Police? Why would a client need an organization to handle complaints when we already have a legal system in place and specific laws to handle consumer related issues?  And more importantly, what is the certifying body’s business structure and how will that influence their criteria for “recourse”?

1. A certifying body needs to be clear about their business structure because there are different legal rules for each type of organization.  A non-profit, for example, has very strict legal requirements whereas a private club can create any body of laws they want to as long as they are not illegal.  The most likely model for a legitimate certifying body would be a non-profit because they don’t have any other business interests and would also have a board of directors, federal guidelines, mandatory meetings, as well as a democratic voting system which would insure that the community gets a voice in choosing leaders.  This would also lessen the possibility of a few self appointed tarot dictators being able to maintain absolute power.

2. Some of these certifying bodies claim to be for the consumer. The idea here is that a potential client could feel “safe” going to a “certified” reader.  (In all the years I have been reading, I have NEVER had a client ask to see my certification.  Most people who seek a tarot reader find us through word of mouth, not through searching some internet data base list of “certified” readers.) These organizations also say that they will offer a “recourse” if the client is unsatisfied or if the tarot reader doesn’t abide by the board’s “code of ethics”. These organizations should be able to clearly spell out the process for filing a complaint and have rules in place to insure that this doesn’t become a convenient forum for any crackpot to file grievances just to get freebies – or worse yet settle scores with rivals or slander other members with malicious intent.

3. Recourse needs to be defined clearly.  What kind of “recourse” can a certified tarot reader expect should a client file a complaint? Will they lose their certification?  Or will the reader be forced to issue a refund?  Or will nothing at all be done?  This is troubling to me because I do not want anyone telling me how to run my business.  I would never hand over that authority to anyone but myself.  Do I really want to put my business in a position where there is even a tiny threat of outside interference in my own policies?  If there is no clear idea of what this “recourse” could entail, then I encourage you to think long and hard before you put your name on the dotted line.  Know what you are getting into and what your rights are should a problem ever arise.

4. If a tarot reader loses their certification, would this be done publicly?  And if so, is there a policy in place to insure that the reader is not slandered by the certifying board?  How can we be sure that privacy and dignity would be preserved even for people who get uncertified?

5. Who polices the police? How can one be sure that the members of the certifying body practice what they preach?  In other words, if someone is going to try and monitor my business, what checks and balances are in place to make sure the powers that be also adhere to these standards?  And if they don’t – what is the recourse for THEM?  Would the tarot community be able to oust an unethical board member?

Although some of these certifying boards are quick to say that they don’t want to “police” the tarot community, aren’t they doing just that by creating arbitrary codes of ethics and then trying to enforce them amongst those who join up?  Is that piece of paper really worth going after if it gives someone else a license to tell you how to run your business?  Could there be legal implications and interference if the organization (either unwittingly or intentionally) steps into a situation that has real legal consequences?

I have seen all this and many more ugly things transpire first hand, over and over again in other supposedly “spiritual” oriented communities. Be it Tarot, Yoga, or just about any other community organization or “governing body” of any sort, the principle is simple, ancient and universal…power corrupts, and absolute power corrupts absolutely.  We all need to put on our thinking caps and pull out our best research skills and psychic guns when anyone is declaring to place some form of authority over another.

In a world that has become increasingly geared toward high speed internet instant gratification, we all need to hold back that urge to click and remember that words are not just set dressing for a sales pitch. Look at the fine print and read between the lines.

Blessings!

Theresa

image courtesy of taoxproductions (special thank you to taox for all the help! xxoo)