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Talkin’ Tarot With Paul LeBars

Wednesday, September 1st, 2010

Talkin’ Tarot With is a monthly feature designed to introduce my readers to different tarot readers from our wonderfully diverse community!  Each month, I’ll be asking various tarot readers 3 questions about their tarot philosophy and style, plus pointing you to their websites and blogs so that you can learn more about them!

This month, I am excited to share a very special tarot reader with you, my personal healer and friend: Paul LeBars.  I’ve had the pleasure to meet him personally and he holds a very dear spot in my heart.  Paul helped me through some difficult transitional periods in my life and I will always be grateful to him for his compassion and gifts.  Learn more about him below:

I started connecting with Paul through Twitter (it’s a fab resource for meeting fellow tarot peeps).  We both participate actively in the tarot community, so it’s not a surprise that our paths would eventually cross.  Paul is an Intuitive Counselor, Tarot Reader and Reiki Healer (a Japanese hands on healing that helps to balance mind, body and spirit) who guides his clients with gentleness and clarity.  I have found him to be a trusted friend and an incredibly talented (yet humble) healer.  In fact, he’s the my go-to person when I need a healing boost.  My experiences with his gift for Reiki has been life altering to say the least.  He helped me deal with the passing of my father and a few other major transitions.  If you are ever in need of a Reiki healing or just curious, I would heartily recommend that you use his services.

He was trained in the Usui Traditional Reiki Method and is a certified Reiki Teacher.  Paul also studies Kabbalah through the Kabbalah Center and lists Astrology, Metaphysics and other healing modalities as his interests.   In addition to all that, he is a weekly cohost on The Love More Project’s Blog Talk Radio show: Everyday Wisdom with Megan and Paul (Tuesday‘s at 11am pst), and volunteers at Reiki free clinics. He’s also a monthly contributor to The Love More Projects monthly E-zine, Love Letters (which can be found at http://thelovemoreproject.com)  Paul has a BA in English Literature with a minor in Cross Cultural Studies in Language and Art from San Francisco State University, as well as holding Certificates in all three levels of Reiki training. His mission is to empower and guide his clients to unleash the power of their Soul, have greater clarity, and lead balanced lives.  Paul offers Tarot/Oracle readings, Reiki sessions and soon – workshops on The Power Of Our Thoughts!

You can find more about Paul through these sites:

Website:  http://paullebars.com

Twitter: http://twitter.com/PAULLEBARS

Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/pages/PAUL-LEBARS/130285720341708

Check out his answers to my questions below:

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1. What is your philosophy about tarot reading?

My philosophy about Tarot reading is that it’s an amazing tool for personal growth and guidance on our soul’s journey. It carries with it timeless wisdom that includes astrology, numerology, Kabbalistic symbolism, and a range of archetypical symbols. For personal readings its great for getting a broader perspective on an issue and can help you get to know yourself better.  I believe the Tarot reader has a responsibility to share information with the querent that is for the highest good of all concerned. A good reading will confirm what the client already knows, and give guidance on how to make the best possible choices for the future. That said I don’t believe anyone should ever use a divination tool in place of their own intuition. Our intuition is our connection with the Creator/ our higher selves and is our personal GPS system in life. A good use of a Tarot reading is when you need clarification and guidance, and to build an even stronger intuition. A good Tarot reading gets you back in touch with your intuition, your own personal power.

2. How do you feel a client might get the most out of a reading with you?

A client would get the most out of a reading from me by coming to it centered, grounded and with an open mind. Sometimes we get messages during a reading that may not make sense at the time, or that we don’t want to hear. I know I’ve personally had readings that were like this, that ended up being very beneficial and powerful because they helped me make the wisest decisions. The Universe and our guides work in perfect ways, so what we are supposed to hear we will hear, however we also will only get what we are looking for by the law of attraction, so keeping an open mind is very important.

3. What is your best piece of advice for an aspiring tarot reader?

My advice for aspiring Tarot readers is to take time to learn the language that is Tarot by reading books, taking classes and getting readings yourself, then put it all away and follow your intuition when reading. It also helps talking to other readers or listening to Tarot shows such as Psychic Friends Live, or The Tarot Lady’s show to hear various perspectives on the cards, this has helped me immensely. Another tool I use is keeping a Tarot journal by pulling three cards a day for myself and seeing at the end of the day how they reflected events in the day. This was inspired by Mary K Greer’s book, Tarot For Yourself. Ultimately your relationship with the cards and deck are what matter. Every Tarot reader is a unique person with a unique life experience. How they interpret the cards is what sets them apart, otherwise the cards are just neutral with a one dimensional message. The reader brings them to life and uses them to help empower you.

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A big hug and thank you to Paul for taking time out of his busy life to answer my questions!  Make sure you visit his site, Paul LeBars to purchase a reading or Reiki session with him (he does Distance Reiki if you live outside of California).  Paul will be my guest on my Blog Talk Radio show on October 17th – be sure to tune in!

Blessings!

Theresa

Talkin’ Tarot With Georgianna Boehnke

Tuesday, August 3rd, 2010

Talkin’ Tarot With is a monthly feature designed to introduce my readers to different tarot readers from our wonderfully diverse community!  Each month, I’ll be asking various tarot readers 3 questions about their tarot philosophy and style, plus pointing you to their websites and blogs so that you can learn more about them!

This month, I’d love to introduce you to Georgianna Boehnke, one of the fab co-hosts of Beyond Worlds and Psychic Friends Live.

I first learned about Georgianna through her former Blog Talk Radio show, Tarot Talk.  For many of us tarot fans, this was a godsend! Georgie and her cohost Raven Mardirosian delighted us month after month as they introduced us to well known tarot readers and authors and discussed many different facets of tarot.  (Although their show discontinued, it can still be heard in archives.)  I was drawn in by Georgie’s smooth voice and incredible tarot skills.  She’s been at the tarot game a long time and has been reading cards for almost 17 years.  Georgie said to me that she “talks, writes and thinks about them all the time”.  It certainly shows – you can feel her passion and excitement for tarot in her voice!

Although Tarot Talk ended a while ago, Georgie’s fans need not fret – recently she joined forces with Storm Cestavani on his Blog Talk Show and has also signed on as a cohost on Beyond Worlds, bringing her back on the air with more tarot goodness!

You can learn more about Georgianna at her website: http://www.thetarotroom.com

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1. What is your philosophy about tarot reading?

Tarot reading offers people an opportunity to see their own situations or thought patterns reflected back to them. It’s a fabulous system. There’s at least one card in every good deck for each of the circumstances we face in our lives. Through the process of asking a question and selecting cards we’re somehow able to clarify cloudy situations and even take a peek into the possible future of the patterns we’re living.

2. How do you feel a client might get the most out of a reading with you?

Probably by being as open to the message as possible. Avoid having expectations about what the cards are going to say. Let the story unfold and see what you think.

3. What is your best piece of advice for an aspiring tarot reader?

My best advice is to allow yourself to become obsessed with cards. Use them as much as you can, carry them around, get friendly with them. Read for yourself and others as much as possible (being sure of course to let others know you’re just learning). And don’t be afraid to play.  I’d also remind people to trust themselves. You know a lot more than you think you do.

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A big thank you to Georgianna for taking time to answer my questions!  Be sure to visit her site, The Tarot Room to purchase a reading or learn more about her.  Georgie will be a guest on my Blog Talk Radio in September.  I’m looking forward to picking her brain some more!

Blessings!

Theresa

Questionable Questions

Friday, July 23rd, 2010

During my typical day as a tarot reader, I get a wide variety of questions tossed at me by my clients.  It runs the gamut from typical romantic issues to more complex situations such as connecting with a departed loved one.  I never know what to expect and have always allowed my clients to feel as if they can bring any question to the table.

In some cases a client may ask something that pushes outside my comfort zone. This is not odd as you think as most tarot readers have guidelines about what is an acceptable question to ask and boundaries vary greatly from reader to reader. (For example, some tarot readers do not answer any questions about health while others have no issue with this.)  Each reader finds their own “code of ethics” that suits their needs and the needs of their clients.

I often find myself contemplating about what makes a question “acceptable” or “unethical”.  Are there some questions a reader should refuse to answer?  And if you are not comfortable with a question, is there a way to still help the client find direction? Can we safely have a universal “code of ethics” or should that be left up to the reader?

  1. Most tarot readers are NOT lawyers, doctors, stock brokers or licensed therapists.  We should never take the place of these professionals. That being said, we can answer general questions about these fields but it is still in the best interests of the reader and the client to refer them to a professional.  Doing otherwise puts the reader and the client in a possibly risky and legally compromising position.  I am careful about how I answer these types of questions and I always keep a list of professionals for referrals. An example: rather than give legal advice, I might look and see if the outcome of a case is favorable to a client.  That is still helpful for them but I am not assuming the role of a lawyer.
  2. Some tarot readers will not answer a question about a third party as they see this as “spying”.  I feel differently about this as giving a client insight into another person may pave the way for communication, compassion and understanding.  I encourage follow up questions such as “how can I help” which can empower the client to make better decisions regarding their relationships.  If you are not comfortable answering questions about others, let the client know and see if you can rephrase the question in a manner that still gives the client helpful information.
  3. Criminal activity is a dicey topic and giving advice here could put you in hot water should you be called to testify against a client.  In some situations, you might even be seen as party to a crime (ex: giving information on “how” to get away with an offense).    Yes, do not be surprised – criminals DO come to tarot readers seeking advice!  Typical questions may include  “am I being watched” and “who can I trust”.  But some may ask heavier questions and you may find yourself nervously turning over those cards, wondering if you are putting someone’s life at risk. This is where I have learned to draw the line.  In my opinion, if a person is seeking my services only to become a better criminal rather than a better person, then I need to disconnect.
  4. If you are uncomfortable with any question, it is best to be honest with your client.  See if you can rephrase questions in a way that still helps them get information while maintaining your boundaries.  And do not ever shame your client by saying something such as “that is against my code of ethics”. This makes the client feel judged for wanting the information they feel they need.
  5. A universal code of ethics may be difficult to apply simply because each reader is different and each client is unique. Some tarot organizations have a set of standards that their members agree to abide by.  This is not a bad idea but you may want to  contemplate if these guidelines work for you as a reader and ask if there is room for flexibility.  Do not agree to anyone else’s rules of conduct unless you are absolutely sure that you can stick with it.

Ultimately, this is all a matter of personal preference.  For myself, respect and compassion for my clients is always my number one priority.  I try to serve their needs in any way that I can as I know that sometimes this is the last place they turn to when they  need insight into their problems.  It is not my job to judge what they ask but to find a way to answer their questions with dignity and compassion.

I’d love to hear your thoughts on using the tarot to answer questions.  What do you feel is the best way to handle questionable questions?  Is there a way that you think clients should ask questions?

Blessings!

Theresa

image by Taoxproductions

A Town That’s Right For Me

Wednesday, July 21st, 2010

One of the hardest things about working in the tarot field is the isolation that some of us feel.  Often times we find ourselves without peers – especially those who may live in a rural area.  It’s not easy to connect but thanks to the advent of the internet and social media in particular, the game has begun to change.  Many of my fellow tarot readers have been delighted to find each other through this medium – and it has made our world a little more inclusive and a lot less lonely.

Recently, a new site launched that has stepped it up a notch and created a true community for us tarot lovers.  It’s called “Tarot Town” and is the brainchild of Marcus Katz and Tali Goodwin of Tarot Professionals .  Tarot Town is fun but don’t be fooled by the light tone – there is some SERIOUS tarot stuff going on here – classes, forums, discussions, groups and more!  Not only can you connect and make friends here – you can improve your skills, ask questions, learn about events and more.  If there was ever a Tarot Nirvana for us tarot freaks, I think I have found it here!

Of course, I had to ask Marcus and Tali about the creation and inspiration behind Tarot Town and this is what they had to say to me:

We were inspired to create Tarot Town by listening to the members of Tarot Professionals. We had been asked to provide a service to allow our members to network and socialise outside of the focused studies of Tarot such as Gated Spreads, the Diploma Course, Tarot Houses and other projects. When we looked at our existing forum we realised that it did not fulfil this purpose, although it is where we will continue to hold our Tarot course discussions.

We then considered our vision to promote high levels of Tarot education, and realised if we could find a way of providing such a social network, we would serve our own vision by opening it to the wider community. We also recognised that as our members had such a great deal of Tarot knowledge and experience we could connect them to those looking for help in their studies in an open and friendly fashion.

This resulted in us looking at many ways of accomplishing this aim – we reviewed existing sites, new technologies, voice/video systems, on-line teaching systems, and much more. We decided on a package of the “best of the best” even though this required a significant technical and financial investment. The site TAROT-TOWN was born from this research and our desire not to re-create the wheel.

With regard to what can we offer, there’s a line in Keat’s Hyperion which asks of the Titans, “What benefit canst thou, or all thy tribe, to the great world?” We asked ourselves the same question – as Living Oracles, what is it we bring to the world? In Tarot we remind ourselves that the Story is bigger than the individual images that arise in front of us – whether it be life or cardboard. In every divination, we are divined. We hope that Tarot Town will lead to more people coming to that experience of Tarot sooner, and deeper, through an accessible introduction. We are also shaking off the cobwebs – the Tarosophy book is all about mythbusting, and promoting brand new ideas, and Tarot Town is a reflection of that ethos, research and experience.

We’ve primarily aimed to make the Town vibrant, fun and free. There’s an optional Citizen rate of $1/month which ensures we can start to make the Town viable in the long-term and at the same time not exclude anyone on the basis of cost. Participants get access to great teaching experiences, video lessons, a one-stop window on selected Blogs and news, and most importantly peer guidance in a supportive environment. Citizens get special courses and privileges.

We are delighted that Rachel Pollack (age 13!) and many of our other Hon. Members of Tarot Professionals have joined to assist in connecting and sharing their wisdom. Our Deck Study groups are likely to have the deck designers and artists themselves in residence – such as Emily Carding in the Transparent Tarot Study Group.

There’s a readers exchange which has the unique feature of double-blind requests (you offer a reading to someone, but they don’t get informed of the request unless they offer a reading to you also) and peer-review feedback system – the Tarosophy STARS rating. We are also privileged to feature Beyond Worlds Radio Show as the Town’s official Radio Station!

Most important to our hearts is that we have provided a space for Tarot Townsfolk and Citizens to make their own home. The future of Tarot Town is in the hands of its inhabitants – it is an agile environment which will respond to the requirements of its citizens in an organic manner:

There once was an architect who did not build roads, or paths, or paving. He did not even include them in his plans and drawings. He laid grass down between the buildings which were open for all to walk.  Then as time went on, he watched where the grass was thinnest, and for where the beautiful curves and shortcuts, straight lines, dells and grooves that the passage of many people created. This was where he then created his paths – where feet naturally walked.

We have exciting plans already in pre-production for Tarot Town. We will be integrating our existing WIZIQ Learning Environment from Tarot Professionals into the Town Hekademia very soon for online courses in the Town. We are already well advanced in a 3d-Avatar environment for Tarot Conferences, Rituals, Discussions and Socialising! If you watch our promo video, you’ll see a sneak preview of the 3D world which will be ready by 2011.

Marcus Katz is the author of Tarosophy: Tarot to Engage Life, Not Escape It (pub. Salamander & Sons, August 2010) and the founder of Tarot Professionals. He is an MBA graduate, M.A. holder (Western Esotericism, University of Exeter) and currently 3-years into a 6-year PhD Thesis on the Teachings of Occult groups in the Western Esoteric Tradition. He is a therapist and trainer.

Tali Goodwin is the Marketing Director of Tarot Professionals and a member of the Chartered Institute of Marketing. Her career has also involved healthcare and occupational therapy. She has also practised Reiki healing.

No matter if you are a tarot professional, a newbie, or just curious, I’d invite you to stop by and take a look around.  You can find me as what else?  The Tarot Lady.  Hope to meet you there!

Blessings!

Theresa

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The Tarot Police Live Inside Of Your Head

Sunday, July 4th, 2010

Recently, the noise around the controversial topic of “tarot certification” has gotten a bit louder and rather heated.  I’ve written posts with my thoughts, and various Blog Talk Radio shows have addressed the subject as well. It was refreshing to hear and assess the many varied viewpoints and perspectives on the subject, and as positive open dialogue often does, the process has revealed a few new thoughts that have piqued my interest and raised new concerns.

Some of the people who were pro-certification were unable to articulate how certification would serve the tarot community.  And then there were those who viewed certification as being “for the consumer” and a way to make the tarot reader “accountable”. Let’s pause and think about that for a minute. In my opinion, these statements present some serious questions that need to be answered.

First of all, words mean things. Words that are meant to sound nice and compelling on a brochure or one page web pitch for an organization are often glanced over without much critical attention paid to the actual practical implications, processes and actions they entail. From time to time, we all tend to get lost between glossy imagery, ad copy and our own fantasies of what a benign and wonderful organization might be like, but what is important is what those words actually mean for those who decide to actually sign on.

For instance, what exactly does “accountability” mean for tarot readers?  When someone says that their organization will hold a reader “accountable” how exactly do they intend to do that? And for what?  And with what financial backup?  What authority do they have? Tarot Police? Why would a client need an organization to handle complaints when we already have a legal system in place and specific laws to handle consumer related issues?  And more importantly, what is the certifying body’s business structure and how will that influence their criteria for “recourse”?

1. A certifying body needs to be clear about their business structure because there are different legal rules for each type of organization.  A non-profit, for example, has very strict legal requirements whereas a private club can create any body of laws they want to as long as they are not illegal.  The most likely model for a legitimate certifying body would be a non-profit because they don’t have any other business interests and would also have a board of directors, federal guidelines, mandatory meetings, as well as a democratic voting system which would insure that the community gets a voice in choosing leaders.  This would also lessen the possibility of a few self appointed tarot dictators being able to maintain absolute power.

2. Some of these certifying bodies claim to be for the consumer. The idea here is that a potential client could feel “safe” going to a “certified” reader.  (In all the years I have been reading, I have NEVER had a client ask to see my certification.  Most people who seek a tarot reader find us through word of mouth, not through searching some internet data base list of “certified” readers.) These organizations also say that they will offer a “recourse” if the client is unsatisfied or if the tarot reader doesn’t abide by the board’s “code of ethics”. These organizations should be able to clearly spell out the process for filing a complaint and have rules in place to insure that this doesn’t become a convenient forum for any crackpot to file grievances just to get freebies – or worse yet settle scores with rivals or slander other members with malicious intent.

3. Recourse needs to be defined clearly.  What kind of “recourse” can a certified tarot reader expect should a client file a complaint? Will they lose their certification?  Or will the reader be forced to issue a refund?  Or will nothing at all be done?  This is troubling to me because I do not want anyone telling me how to run my business.  I would never hand over that authority to anyone but myself.  Do I really want to put my business in a position where there is even a tiny threat of outside interference in my own policies?  If there is no clear idea of what this “recourse” could entail, then I encourage you to think long and hard before you put your name on the dotted line.  Know what you are getting into and what your rights are should a problem ever arise.

4. If a tarot reader loses their certification, would this be done publicly?  And if so, is there a policy in place to insure that the reader is not slandered by the certifying board?  How can we be sure that privacy and dignity would be preserved even for people who get uncertified?

5. Who polices the police? How can one be sure that the members of the certifying body practice what they preach?  In other words, if someone is going to try and monitor my business, what checks and balances are in place to make sure the powers that be also adhere to these standards?  And if they don’t – what is the recourse for THEM?  Would the tarot community be able to oust an unethical board member?

Although some of these certifying boards are quick to say that they don’t want to “police” the tarot community, aren’t they doing just that by creating arbitrary codes of ethics and then trying to enforce them amongst those who join up?  Is that piece of paper really worth going after if it gives someone else a license to tell you how to run your business?  Could there be legal implications and interference if the organization (either unwittingly or intentionally) steps into a situation that has real legal consequences?

I have seen all this and many more ugly things transpire first hand, over and over again in other supposedly “spiritual” oriented communities. Be it Tarot, Yoga, or just about any other community organization or “governing body” of any sort, the principle is simple, ancient and universal…power corrupts, and absolute power corrupts absolutely.  We all need to put on our thinking caps and pull out our best research skills and psychic guns when anyone is declaring to place some form of authority over another.

In a world that has become increasingly geared toward high speed internet instant gratification, we all need to hold back that urge to click and remember that words are not just set dressing for a sales pitch. Look at the fine print and read between the lines.

Blessings!

Theresa

image courtesy of taoxproductions (special thank you to taox for all the help! xxoo)

The Care And Feeding Of Tarot Readers

Friday, June 18th, 2010

If you’re thinking about becoming a professional tarot reader, I’d like to let you in on a little secret: tarot reading is hard, taxing work. You may wonder how this could be, as it appears like the reader is just sitting around tossing a few cards on a table and chatting with people.  Well, on the outside it may look like “having a good time” hanging with clients, but truth is, this career demands a lot from those who intend to walk the walk.  Many fellow readers tell me how drained  and burnt out they can feel at times.  Over the course of twenty years as a professional tarot reader, I too have experienced this myself and have had to develop tools to help me remain grounded and balanced.

Self awareness is the first key.  Over the years,  I’ve learned to become more sensitive to the warning signs when my energy is unbalanced:

  • Feeling depleted/ lethargic/ drained
  • Depression
  • Addictive behavior (for me excessive eating of sweets)
  • Putting on excessive weight
  • Less psychic sensitivity
  • Irritability/ impatience

When you are doing any sort of spiritual work, you collect negative energy from the people that seek your services.  Understand this: it’s not deliberate on the part of the client.  A tarot reader has to be open to the experience – and often times the querent may be coming with a lot of emotional baggage or heavy issues, which can be absorbed by the reader.  Once the reading is over and the client leaves, this energy remains with you.  And over time, this can build up, layer by layer and begin to affect the quality of your readings – or in extreme circumstances, your health.  You may not notice it right away but eventually if this negativity is not released, it will weigh you down and undermine your ability to remain a clear channel for your clients.

For me, this happens less these days as I make my self-care and spiritual health a priority.  I have found that it is vital to keep your psychic tools sharp, clean and maintained if you want to continue on this path without jeopardizing your sanity or health.  It all starts with boundaries.  I maintain the strictest of boundaries and put limits on a client’s access to me.  My guidelines, for example,  are:

  • All appointments must be scheduled in advance.  No last minute appointments
  • I do not answer “quick questions” over the phone
  • A 3 – 6 month wait between appointments (sometimes longer for some clients)
  • If a client sounds extremely distressed, I may make them wait until they are more calm and focused
  • No-shows get banned

You’ll have to choose what boundaries are comfortable for you.  Some readers are a bit more lax and it doesn’t seem to affect them at all.  For myself, I have found that I function better with structure and this allows my readings to remain objective.

In addition to establishing some ground rules with your clients, it is also important that you create time and space for self care.  Not only eating well and exercising, but also tending to your spiritual life.  There are a few things I do to keep my chakras balanced, energy stable and psychic channels clear:

  • Meditation - spending time with your inner self connects you to the guidance within and allows you to quiet the mind.  Meditation helps to work out your own issues and allows you to become friends with your SELF.  This leads to greater compassion, and that benefits YOU and your clients.
  • Exercise – negative energy can get stored in the body.  Taking time every day to do some sort of physical exercise (I prefer yoga) will insure you are not holding on to difficult emotions or bad energy, which could lead to illness or a feeling of being drained.
  • Pace yourself – I keep a schedule and only read tarot 4 days a week and I limit the number of  clients I see.  Avoid over doing it as that is the surest way to burn out.
  • Bodywork – Massage is a wonderful way to release trapped energy and restore the mind, body and spirit.
  • Eat well – it’s no secret that I love to eat.  Good nutrition paves the way for a healthy body and mind.  However, when I am absorbing too much energy from my clients, I’ll go on mad candy binges!  I try to limit my sweets but more importantly – if I am choosing to eat poorly, I look at my work and see what needs tweaking.  Perhaps a day off or an extra yoga practice could fend off the poor eating habits.
  • Salt baths – at times, my boundaries may be crossed by some really negative client and I find myself completely drained.  A salt bath will cleanse the aura and restore my sixth sense.  It’s very simple to do – fill a tub with warm water and about a cup (or more) of sea salt. Soak for a good 20 minutes.  Air dry.  This works wonders and I swear by it!
  • Candles – I’m a huge fan of candles for cleansing my tarot room and  charging myself and my cards.  I use the Tarot Tools candles by Coventry Creations, which were made especially for tarot readers!  The Energy Boost and Psychic Cleansing candles are a MUST in any tarot reader’s arsenal!

The wise tarot readers will make sure that they keep themselves in tip top shape, from head to toe to soul.  It makes all the difference  not just in the quality of the readings but in the quality of the reader’s LIFE.

Blessings!

Theresa

image courtesy of taoxproductions

How do you keep yourself sane and balanced? I’d love to hear your suggestions!  Post them in the comments section below!

Talkin’ Tarot With Suzi (aka Starcana)

Thursday, June 3rd, 2010
Talkin’ Tarot With is a monthly feature designed to introduce my readers to different tarot readers from our wonderfully diverse community!  Each month, I’ll be asking various tarot readers 3 questions about their tarot philosophy and style, plus pointing you to their websites and blogs so that you can learn more about them!
I have to admit, my next guest was rather reluctant and I had to twist her arm.  She’s a bit shy about stepping into the spotlight so this required a lot of coaxing on my part.  I’m so happy and honored that she has agreed to do my little interview!  So, without further ado, I’d like to introduce you to Suzi Dronek, also known as Starcana!  Check out her profile and answers below:

I met Suzi through Twitter – in fact, she was one the first people to really connect with me in an authentic and friendly way.  I was drawn to her intelligent astrology and tarot posts as well as her humble, kind personality.  Over time we developed a friendship outside of Twitter and even collaborated on a blog and forum together.  It is always amazing to me that Suzi has such a large base of knowledge and she is always willing to share it without expecting anything in return. I’ve learned a lot from her prolific blogging and tweeting – and am still expanding my knowledge through her insights.  And get this – Suzi is also an incredibly talented graphic designer.  I’ve hired her to design a few things (including the banner above) and have been very pleased with her professionalism and artistic talent.  I feel very grateful to have her in my life and hope to continue to learn, collaborate and laugh together!

Suzi has over 20 years of practice in spiritual astrology, mystic tarot, and the intuitive arts. Her passion is to help others to help themselves, thru self-awareness and potential. She’s a contributor for ‘AstroCreeps and TarotFreaks‘ with graphics and ‘Tarot Affirmations‘. She also posts a monthly Astroscope, Tarotscope, and more, which can all be found on her website www.starcana.com.  You can also connect with Suzi on Twitter (her handle is Starcana).

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1. What is your philosophy about tarot reading?

Tarot is a splendid strategy that we use to reflect the power of our spirit. Each of us are dealt a hand in life. To be our very best, we must learn how to play our cards well. If we listen and pay close attention, the cards will teach us ‘what to play’ and ‘what to hold’. This intuitive tool stirs our imagination, daring us to think outside the box and to stray upon unfamiliar roads. Tarot will speak to us like a close friend, mysteriously ‘knowing’ what we are experiencing, while brilliantly advising us to be aware, and to choose our next step wisely. It’s a secret language, and through careful translation, we receive insightful messages to steer us onto a safer route in our relationships, profession, and inner self. Tarot is a powerful communicator that invites us to have a heart-to-heart conversation with our soul. As we thirst for more knowledge and experience enlightenment, interpretations begin to alter and branch out, allowing our spirit to do the same. Once we know its infinite depth and true potential, we can begin to understand why its messages will never be set in stone.


2. How do you feel a client might get the most out of a reading with you?

Clients want a reading, but they also want to be able to confess their soul to a confidant or best friend. They want to be themselves, without feeling judged. What good is the magic of an outstanding reading, if they are embarrassed to talk about their feelings, uncomfortable to ask the real questions, and fearful to participate in the reading? If a burden isn’t released and brought to light, their dilemma will continue to contaminate their journey and potential. When compassion is shared with a warm, fun, and friendly conversation, I hope to create a memorable welcome mat, that allows them a cool place to return. Truth and guidance are the meat and potatoes of a reading. The client will quietly listen and evaluate the reader’s sincerity and performance to determine if there is a genuine connection. I’m a problem-solver, and the only way for an issue to be truly addressed, is to approach it honestly while facing the cold hard facts. As a professional and a spiritual individual, my objective is to help others to help themselves, by locating weaknesses while generating realistic solutions. It is important to build a strong foundation of trust with expertise and integrity, so that a client not only wants to listen, but also has a desire to learn and grow.

3. What is your best piece of advice for an aspiring tarot reader?

Tarot is a tool for both intuition and awareness. It should always be used to empower and guide for a higher purpose. Honor and respect must be present in your readings, the way you treat your clients, and to yourself. Reading is an art which is based on interpretation. Everyone will always have an opinion, which is a matter of perspective only. Never let judgments get in the way of your own path. The best artists are those who stay true to themselves and their unique style. Originality will always stand out from the crowd, so when the books aren’t working anymore, trust your own intuitive technique. Research other readers and make notes as to what you like, and what you don’t like, in regards to how you would like to represent yourself and your readings. Last, to avoid those unspoken fears, learn and follow the law in your state for performing readings, always provide the client with free will, offer crisis numbers, and create your own terms of what you do, and what you will not do.

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A big thank you and hug to Suzi for taking the time to answer my questions and allowing me to put the spotlight on her!  My next mission in life is to get her to come on my Blog Talk Radio Show – watch for her soon – July 11th!

Blessings!

Theresa

Top Ten Tarot Blogs

Saturday, May 15th, 2010

I’m always on the hunt for new ways of looking at the tarot.  You’ll always find a tarot book on my reading table but I have discovered that some of the best tarot writing actually exists on the web.  There are some fantastic blogs that I visit on a regular basis because they never fail to enlighten me and expand my own abilities.

Here are my top ten recommended tarot blogs:

1.  Mary Greer’s Blog – no list would be complete without Mary’s blog.  This brilliant tarot scholar engages her readers with a wide array of subjects from tarot history to different spreads to tarot references in pop culture.  It is obvious that Mary is constantly learning and we are lucky that she is sharing her knowledge with us!

2.  Tarot Eon – this smart blog is written by Douglas Gibb and I can honestly say that his writing has changed my view on tarot more than any other writer out there.  He is deep, philosophical and playful.  Whenever my tarot brain gets too lazy, all I need to do is hop over to his site and in no time, I am thinking deeper than I have ever before.

3. Tarot Elements – I’ve been consistently impressed by Catherine Chapman’s stellar blog. Excellent tarot writing and delightful guest bloggers (I even got the honor of writing a post here!) round out this blog wonderfully.  There is a cornucopia of knowledge here and I’m always discovering new things!

4.  Tarot Pathways – This is a blog at Llewellyn, new age publishers, written by tarot expert Barbara Moore.  Witty writing, deep insights and so many different ways of working with tarot – it seems as if Barbara is an endless well of ideas and concepts!  One of the things I really enjoy about her writing is her conversational tone – I feel as if I am sneaking a peek at someone’s tarot diary and getting the “real dirt” on what tarot is all about!

5.  Bonnie Cehovet – Bonnie is a prolific writer and deck reviewer.  She takes great care to provide detailed reviews of tarot decks and books and this is the place I go to before I buy a deck.  I know I’ll always get an honest and thorough opinion without any hidden agendas.  Before you plunk down your hard earned dollars on your next deck, be sure to look here!

6.  Corrine Kenner’s Shuffle – This popular blog has it all – deck and book reviews, spreads, and get this – American Idol predictions!  I LOVE this!  Corrine is also a well known tarot author and has written one of my all time favorite tarot books:  Tarot Journaling.  Make sure you stop by here and see what she’s up to.  It’s always entertaining!

7.  Supertarot - If you want to learn  more about the Golden Dawn system as well as get more familiar with the Thoth Deck, then Paul Hughes Barlow is your man and this is the site you want to visit.  I am really new to the concepts he presents here and one thing I can tell you – Paul explains these methods in such a clear and concise manner that even my stubborn brain can ‘get it’.

8.  Melissa Tarot – you know what I really like about this blog?  Melissa has a great sense of humor and an excellent way with words.  She explores cards in depth and melds philosophy with wit for a fun yet serious look at the tarot.  I’m looking forward to watching this blog continue to grow.  Good stuff so far….

9.  Musings On Tarot – Arwen Lynch has one of the freshest tarot voices on the web.  She makes me laugh out loud some times, she makes me think and she makes me hungry.  What you ask?  Well, she sometimes writes about tarot and food!  I love her recipes and for me, this is the Holy Grail because there is nothing I love more than food – imagine reading about a tarot card and getting a recipe for guacamole! Fun!  Don’t let that make you assume the blog is silly – there is some super intense tarot interpretations too!

10.  Donnaleigh – This is a fun page with a potpourri of information and a tongue in cheek attitude at times.  Donnaleigh’s colorful blog is never boring! She writes about her own experiences with tarot and she’s never afraid to take it to places I would never dream of!  And if you’re too lazy to read (I know plenty of people who claim to be), she also includes an audio file “Tarot Minute”.  Listen in and learn!

While this list is big, it is by no means complete.  Be sure to check out these other blogs: Auracana, Big Tarot, Tarot Dame, 78 Notes To Self, Cat ‘N Owl and up and coming awesome tarot blogger Mike Hernandez

I also hope you check out the other blog I contribute to with my good pals Astrogrrl, Starcana and TaurusRising: Astrocreeps and Tarot Freaks.

Keep learning and keep reading!

Blessings!

Theresa

Talkin’ Tarot With Donnaleigh

Tuesday, May 11th, 2010

I’m really excited to introduce a brand new feature on my blog “Talkin’ Tarot With…”. My goal here is to feature different tarot readers so that you can get a feel for the diversity of the tarot community!  Each month, I’ll be asking various tarot readers 3 questions about their tarot philosophy and style, plus pointing you to their websites and blogs so that you can learn more about them!  I hope you’ll find this to be fun and interesting!

I’m honored to bring you my very first guest – the fabulously talented and supremely sweet Donnaleigh!  Check out her profile and answers below:

I first learned about Donnaleigh through her Blogtalk Radio show, Beyond Worlds – a show that features various tarot readers, mediums, healers, astrologers and more.  I was really impressed by the quality of the show as well as Donnaleigh’s vast knowledge and warmth.  I had the great privilege of being a guest on Beyond Worlds a while ago and it was so much fun!  Since then, I’ve been an avid fan and it’s amazing how much I learn from that show!

Donnaleigh has a strong focus on tarot education. She loves teaching people not only how to read tarot but how to use it to better their lives.  Beyond Worlds has become a primary presence in the tarot community for fun and learning, and has gathered a worldwide following. She is now paired with Storm Cestavani (Psychic Friends Live), the #1 most-downloaded metaphysical show on BTR – the two share shows and have created a landing spot for practitioners who want to connect with a community, as well as  for the general public who seek to learn more about the psychic arts and spirituality through metaphysics.  (I’ll be working on getting an interview with Storm here soon….so watch for it!)

You can learn more about Donnaleigh at http://www.donnaleigh.net.

Her weekend radio shows are at Tarot Tribe (available both live and in archives), and she co-hosts every Friday on Storm Cestavani’s daily podcast show, Psychic Friends Live.

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1.  What is your philosophy about tarot reading?

The primary draw I have to continue tarot readings and what fires my passion so deeply is the powerful impact tarot has on people’s lives and their ability to control and change their future for the better. Through the cards — which somehow don’t seem come up randomly but rather show themselves very precisely and meaningfully — people can tap into the core of what is happening in their life, the patterns they have established, their roadblocks (to become aware and break through them), and receive advice on how to put their best foot forward for the highest outcome. Tarot seems to choose the cards randomly better than I could choose them on purpose. When people sink into their meanings with me, we develop a clear outline to tidy up their life situation, and we can create priorities, goals, and shifts for ongoing betterment.


2.  How do you feel a client might get the most out of a reading with you?

I like to start by telling a client what the cards are saying without the client giving me too much information, to be sure we have a strong connection with what is about to happen in the reading. If they tell me too much, I worry they won’t trust the process. This “defining of their situation” is just a precursor to the most important part of the reading: sinking into outlining and manifesting their best future by recognizing potential choices and outcomes. This bonding process with their past and current situation helps them gain trust in the reading and connect with me as a reader. But it is the latter part of a reading that truly has the most power to change lives.

Once the initial  trust happens, I feel that when a client then becomes participatory in their reading, especially if they see situations in the cards’ symbolism that I may bypass, the process amplifies and becomes “theirs.”

It is important to me that clients recognize the power of their own free will as well. Cards or readings do not dictate a certain infallible outcome or fate, but define potential goals and help us recognize yet-to-be manifested futures. The future is coming, and we are creating it now. When I feel people grasp their own power, start acting proactively, live deliberately, and have better clarity, I then see that they live on purpose. It is then that I feel they have received the most out of a tarot reading because they have taken hold of their own reins and begin to own their personal power by creating their own shifts rather than passively waiting for something to come to them.

3.  What is your best piece of advice for an aspiring tarot reader?

a) Feel the passion as you learn, and don’t stress about “being wrong.” Practice on friends or with online with groups to gain confidence and put more meanings of each card in your back pocket, but feel the fire. Tarot can be a very magical and powerful process of self-growth, and when you ride the wave with passion, it becomes its own journey of joy –not just a way of getting you to another situation of joy — but a joyful process in itself.

b) I also suggest that people keep their readings for the highest good. Be sure that the questions you are answering deliver the querent to a sense of confidence and empowerment rather than a place of being a victim or feeling helpless. It’s perfectly okay to gently say no to answering a question if you worry the answer might be more than you could handle giving or your client could handle taking (i.e., health questions). Refer to the proper professionals when necessary (psychologist, doctor, financial advisor).

c) Trust what the cards say. Be honest, and trust what you see/feel/hear/sense. Your first impulse is usually the most powerful and honest piece of information. Listen to the additional pieces that come in –  even if they seem unrelated to the original meanings of the cards.

d) Leave opinions and judgments out of a reading. The tarot reading should be a safe and neutral place for querents to say what is on their mind without any bias, judgment, or social pressure.

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A big thank you to Donnaleigh for her time and words of wisdom!
I’ll be joining Donnaleigh and Storm THIS Friday May 14th – check it out at Psychic Friends Live!  I can’t wait!
Blessings!
Theresa

Lessons Learned From RS10

Monday, April 26th, 2010

I am currently back home after an eventful week at the Reader’s Studio.  What a week it was!  New faces, old friends, lessons…so much to digest.  I am sure it will take me  while to process this life changing conference!  Even the last day had plenty to do.  I started out my morning attending Donnaleigh’s Breakfast Roundtable.  She gave a lively lecture about “tarot bridges” and explained how the cards can connect with each other to provide insights.  This did not disappoint – she had a lot of information to pack in an hour but seemed to do it seamlessly.  (I must confess that I really enjoyed the Roundtable events – both Donnaleigh and Paul Quinn had a lot to share!)

Donnaleigh teaching about tarot bridges

Afterwards, we met up with our original partners for the “Foundation Reading” to revisit the original reading we did for each other and see how the new insights we learned at the conference enhanced our interpretations.  I was pleasantly surprised to see that what I had learned from these different teachers did indeed add a lot of depth to my reading!  Wow.  That was a powerful revelation to me.  Although I have been reading for many years, this was an eye opener.  It clearly pointed out that tarot has many layers and one can never learn enough!  (I was also happily surprised to discover that Andy and I had the same penchant for industrial music which helped me to see him as a kindred spirit in addition to being a reader that I respected!)

Myself with my tarot partner, Andy Matzner

The day finished with a ceremony to hand out certificates and prizes.  Ironically, I won a membership into a tarot organization which was the universe’s way of winking at me.  I am not affiliated with any tarot organizations as I am a lone wolf and have no intention of joining any group.  So, I had to laugh out loud at this turn of events.  What kind of cosmic joke was this to my anarchist nature?  Hmmm……I think I’ll have to ponder that a bit before I come to a conclusion.

After saying my goodbyes, it was time to head to the airport and get home to a very needy (and messy) household.  Although I am glad to be home, I am grateful for all the things I learned at the conference.  Here’s my epiphanies:

Mary Greer, Robert Place, Dr. Elinor Greenberg, Ruth Ann Amberstone

1.  You can teach an old dog new tricks. I’ve been at the tarot game for almost 3 decades and have never had any formal training.  While I do believe I know the tarot pretty well, these classes all gave me new tools.  The class with the Amberstones revealed symbols and subtleties that I took for granted.  Dr. Elinor Greenberg pushed me outside my comfort zone with a therapy technique that challenged my beliefs (although it was not my cup of tea, I will be first in line to buy her book “Tarot Counseling” when it is published next year as I now realize that what she is teaching is groundbreaking and invaluable).  Robert Place humbled me with his vast knowledge and is making me rethink some of my assumptions about chakras.  And Mary Greer is a delight.  I have read Mary’s books in the past and thought her interactive method of tarot reading was too different from my “style” to incorporate into my work.  Lo and behold, this wise woman taught in a surprisingly effective manner and I may never look at tarot the same way again.  She’s amazing and now I can’t wait for my next opportunity to learn from her!

Myself with tarot author Mary Greer

2.  Resistance limits you.  I’ll admit that I am rather set in my ways.  In fact, I am rather fond of my own opinions.  The RS10 challenged me to rethink some of my own beliefs.  That doesn’t mean I am going to abandon my ideals but I am certainly going to open my mind to new insights.

3.  Twitter is a great place to make friends. One of the coolest things about RS10 was meeting many of the friends I have met through Twitter.  Yup, lots of tarot peeps like to tweet.  How cool it was to finally put faces to the names!  I had always been skeptical about meeting people online but this whole experience taught me that there are super people out there and it is worth venturing out of my cave to connect!

4.  Ruth Ann and Wald Amberstone are the bomb! I can’t believe what a major effort these two put into this conference.  The Amberstones were a joy to be around – they are approachable, knowledgeable, friendly and really know how to make you feel welcome.  I have the utmost respect for them and intend on learning more with them.  How nice to finally find some mentors that I can look up to!

5.  Room service rocks! For the last four years of my life, I have been busy with care taking.  This was the first time I have ever been in a hotel that had room service as I tend to go the uber cheap route when I travel.  As lame as it sounds, having someone wait on me for a change was a joy.  As the waiter said to me when he brought up my requested glass of wine “You deserve this.”  That was the biggest revelation of all – I do deserve to hang out with cool peers, learn from the best, enjoy my life and be treated well.  This conference has changed me in more ways than one.  I definitely plan on making this an annual retreat.

But now….back to my regular life and my needy cats, my hungry husband, my messy house and my awesome clients.  After the conference, the laundry so to speak.

Blessings!

Theresa

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