In my last post I wrote about getting a great tarot reading. But what about how to GIVE one? Many new readers struggle with this and I get asked all the time for advice. Whether you are a tarot reading newbie or an old pro, here are a few tips to help you give awesome tarot readings:
1. Ground yourself. No matter how talented you are, if you are not calm and present, your readings will suffer. It is imperative that your mind is in a good place so the information you receive will be accurate and not tainted by your moods or issues. I highly recommend that you learn to meditate. A consistent meditation practice will center your mind, allowing for more focus and a better connection to your own inner wisdom. If you are the ansty type (I am), take up yoga. It has a wonderful way of “tricking” you into a meditative state. Every day I do a yoga practice and meditate. I can personally attest that it has helped my readings immensely.
2. Prep your environment. Be sure the place you read in is tranquil and clean. Although I am a cluttery gal, I keep my office neat and free of messy distractions. I like to burn a little incense to create a nice vibe and I play some soft music in the background. Candles and crystals are also a nice touch for creating a spiritual mood. My clients often remark that my office is soothing.
3. Uncross your legs and arms. This sounds silly but if you like to sit with crossed feet or arms, it can “block energy”. Plant your feet firmly on the ground and refrain from a closed off stance. I sometimes like to put my feet up on another chair. While this may not be totally grounding, it is relaxing for me.
4. Get rid of unnecessary distractions. In other words, if you have unfriendly dogs, screaming kids or a nosy spouse, scoot them out of your room. I have two friendly cats that can really be a pain. At times I will allow them in the office (some clients even insist on their presence!), but when they get too obnoxious, they get the boot!
5. Be sober. No one enjoys a cocktail as much as I do – however, a tipsy tarot reader is never a good thing. You need to be conscious in order to receive information properly. (I know of one psychic who did a reading for two senior citizens while he was tripping on acid! He said it was NOT a groovy experience as he could barely function!) If you like to imbibe, do it after your work. Your clients deserve a fully functional reader!
6. Practice often. The best tarot readers constantly practice to perfect their art. Whether this means doing readings on a regular basis or learning new techniques from other sources, keep on practicing. The more you do it, the better you will get. Read for everyone who is interested.
7. Get your ego out of it. If you are worried about “being wrong” or on the other hand enamored with your own abilities, you are bound to fail. Learn to be neutral. Deliver information without attaching your emotions, ego, or need for validation to the reading. Simply read.
Happy tarot reading!
Theresa
www.thetarotlady.com
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