The Deck and Book Nook: The Sun And Moon Tarot

July 26th, 2010

Illustrator Vanessa Decort has created a stunning yet simple deck with her Sun And Moon Tarot.  This latest offering from U.S. Games looks rather plain at first glance but on close inspection, there is a richness and complexity that draws you in and lends new, subtle nuances to your tarot readings.  Decort describes the deck this way: “The Sun And Moon Tarot considers universal archetypes and cultural symbols, and also incorporates the artist’s own personal symbols.”

The deck is comprised of the standard 78 cards, with Majors, Minors and Courts.  Based on the Thoth deck, it stays true to the titles that Aleister Crowley used (ex: 7 of Pentacles – Failure; Art – Temperance; Princes and Princes rather than Knights and Pages).  I’ve always been somewhat intimidated by the Thoth deck but Decort has taken that influence and infused it with an almost playful, childlike essence.  This could be because she has a background as an illustrator for children’s books or perhaps she simply wanted to deliver the wisdom of the Thoth deck in a more whimsical and  accessible manner.  I’m not sure which reason guided her work but the result is an inviting, fun deck that never loses its Thoth roots.

This is a well made deck on sturdy card stock with a somewhat matte finish.  It felt great in my hands, shuffled well and seemed built to last. This is very important to me as I tend to be hard on my decks through constant use. The back of the deck is a gorgeous black and white mandala – and it’s reversible, another small detail that I like.

Each image is framed by white borders with titles (in English) and numbers clearly printed.  The typeface is easy to read, no squinting required.  Colors are bold yet muted.    I especially liked the choices for the Minors suits – neutral, earthy tones for Earth; dark grey, burnt sienna and orange flames for Fire; rich midnight blue for Water; and light sky blue for Air.  These color schemes make sense and allow the reader to instantly know which suit they are working with before they even glance at the title.

There are strong Kabbalah and alchemy influences throughout the deck – each Major has a Hebrew letter and the elemental symbols appear on every minor.  Yogic images are scattered about – from the OM symbol in the Hermit to the dancing Shiva as the Universe (World)!  Of course, being a yogi, this is personally very appealing to me!

The Major arcana is especially rich with symbols – the yin and yang in the Temperance and the Phoenix in the Death card convey the meanings clearly.  Astrological symbols are featured throughout the Majors – for example, the Cancer symbol on the chest of the driver in The Chariot or the ram’s heads and lamb (Aries) in the Emperor.

One of the things I liked the best about this deck was the multicultural imagery.  Rather than “standard” RWS people, there are all races represented here – black, white, dark haired, redheads and more.  This gives the deck a “modern” appeal and I happen to like that as my own personal life is diverse – so seeing this detail made me feel more connected to the deck.

Despite the Thoth influence, the standard Rider Waite interpretations show up in the Minors.  Rather than pip cards, the Minors are fully illustrated with people in various postures and actions – and this makes the Minors easier to grasp.  I especially liked the image of the 10 of Wands, which shows an African woman delicately balancing a bunch of sticks on top of her head as she travels across a desert landscape.  This lends a more hopeful feel to the standard interpretation (Decort interprets it as: “Ability to adapt when overwhelmed, like reeds bending with the wind.”)

I found it odd at first that none of the images had faces.  In fact, they were blank like an Amish doll.  I am a visual person and I thought this would inhibit my ability to read these cards.  Surprisingly though I found that the symbols and the body language of the people allowed me to understand the cards easily.  And without any facial expressions to guide me, I started to find that I was less limited in my own interpretations.  For example, the 3 of Swords has an image of three swords going through a cloud which forms a thought bubble above the head of a woman who is resting her hand on her knee.  Normally I interpret this card as heartbreak or loss – but this image spoke of perhaps reflecting on a disappointment.  In a weird way, the lack of facial expressions is a bit liberating.

The Sun and Moon Tarot comes with a standard little white book but I think this deck needs a companion book as I felt there was not enough information to really grasp the possibilities that are present in this deck.  For example, I read reversals and there were no interpretations for them.  I’d like to see how the artist would interpret these.  I’d also like more information on how this deck relates to the Thoth as I feel that it could help to shed light on the Thoth and make it more approachable to those of us who shy away from it.  But these are very small, niggling requests.

After going over all those details, I always find the best way to really see if a deck is useable is by doing a reading. So I asked the deck this question: how will the Sun and Moon Tarot work for me?  I pulled the Ace of Wands.  One of the interpretations in the book was “Spiritual enlightenment and intuition”.  I feel this is an appropriate description as for me, this deck does not have any of the “same old same old” stuff that I tend to rely on – I have to really pay attention to the symbols and energy and let the faces come alive without my preconceived notions. This IS intuition in action.

I’m giving this deck two Swords up.  It is a unique and interesting deck for any tarot lover’s collection.

Blessings!

Theresa

all images used with permission from US Games Tarot

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The Deck And Book Nook

July 25th, 2010

I’m excited to reveal a new feature that I’ve been working on: The Deck And Book Nook.  This will be a bimonthly post with reviews of different tarot books and decks.  I’ve got a huge appetite for books and you’ll usually find me at home with my nose in one.  I’m more choosy with tarot decks but always open to new perspectives that each unique deck offers .  I aim to offer an honest, unbiased, and detailed description of each deck and/or book that will guide you, the consumer, in making informed choices.

I’ll be posting images to illustrate and will also include links to the authors websites if available.  I also have a “grading” system that will further define my viewpoint (a tongue and cheek nod to Siskel and Ebert):

Two Swords Up – This is an enthusiastic YES!  Buy the product!

One Sword Down/One Sword Up – This is a neutral response – some praise, some criticisms.  May only appeal to some.

Two Swords Down – A big NO.  Too many issues to make it a worthwhile investment. Pass.

I hope that you will find these reviews to be a trusted resource before you open up your pocketbook.  Look for the first review tomorrow!

Blessings!

Theresa

PS If there are any decks or books you’d like to see featured here – please email me your requests and I will try to honor them.  If you are a deck or book author and would like to have me review your creation, please email me to discuss.  I may already have it in my collection!  You can reach me at tarotlady@wi.rr.com.

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Questionable Questions

July 23rd, 2010

During my typical day as a tarot reader, I get a wide variety of questions tossed at me by my clients.  It runs the gamut from typical romantic issues to more complex situations such as connecting with a departed loved one.  I never know what to expect and have always allowed my clients to feel as if they can bring any question to the table.

In some cases a client may ask something that pushes outside my comfort zone. This is not odd as you think as most tarot readers have guidelines about what is an acceptable question to ask and boundaries vary greatly from reader to reader. (For example, some tarot readers do not answer any questions about health while others have no issue with this.)  Each reader finds their own “code of ethics” that suits their needs and the needs of their clients.

I often find myself contemplating about what makes a question “acceptable” or “unethical”.  Are there some questions a reader should refuse to answer?  And if you are not comfortable with a question, is there a way to still help the client find direction? Can we safely have a universal “code of ethics” or should that be left up to the reader?

  1. Most tarot readers are NOT lawyers, doctors, stock brokers or licensed therapists.  We should never take the place of these professionals. That being said, we can answer general questions about these fields but it is still in the best interests of the reader and the client to refer them to a professional.  Doing otherwise puts the reader and the client in a possibly risky and legally compromising position.  I am careful about how I answer these types of questions and I always keep a list of professionals for referrals. An example: rather than give legal advice, I might look and see if the outcome of a case is favorable to a client.  That is still helpful for them but I am not assuming the role of a lawyer.
  2. Some tarot readers will not answer a question about a third party as they see this as “spying”.  I feel differently about this as giving a client insight into another person may pave the way for communication, compassion and understanding.  I encourage follow up questions such as “how can I help” which can empower the client to make better decisions regarding their relationships.  If you are not comfortable answering questions about others, let the client know and see if you can rephrase the question in a manner that still gives the client helpful information.
  3. Criminal activity is a dicey topic and giving advice here could put you in hot water should you be called to testify against a client.  In some situations, you might even be seen as party to a crime (ex: giving information on “how” to get away with an offense).    Yes, do not be surprised – criminals DO come to tarot readers seeking advice!  Typical questions may include  “am I being watched” and “who can I trust”.  But some may ask heavier questions and you may find yourself nervously turning over those cards, wondering if you are putting someone’s life at risk. This is where I have learned to draw the line.  In my opinion, if a person is seeking my services only to become a better criminal rather than a better person, then I need to disconnect.
  4. If you are uncomfortable with any question, it is best to be honest with your client.  See if you can rephrase questions in a way that still helps them get information while maintaining your boundaries.  And do not ever shame your client by saying something such as “that is against my code of ethics”. This makes the client feel judged for wanting the information they feel they need.
  5. A universal code of ethics may be difficult to apply simply because each reader is different and each client is unique. Some tarot organizations have a set of standards that their members agree to abide by.  This is not a bad idea but you may want to  contemplate if these guidelines work for you as a reader and ask if there is room for flexibility.  Do not agree to anyone else’s rules of conduct unless you are absolutely sure that you can stick with it.

Ultimately, this is all a matter of personal preference.  For myself, respect and compassion for my clients is always my number one priority.  I try to serve their needs in any way that I can as I know that sometimes this is the last place they turn to when they  need insight into their problems.  It is not my job to judge what they ask but to find a way to answer their questions with dignity and compassion.

I’d love to hear your thoughts on using the tarot to answer questions.  What do you feel is the best way to handle questionable questions?  Is there a way that you think clients should ask questions?

Blessings!

Theresa

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A Town That’s Right For Me

July 21st, 2010

One of the hardest things about working in the tarot field is the isolation that some of us feel.  Often times we find ourselves without peers – especially those who may live in a rural area.  It’s not easy to connect but thanks to the advent of the internet and social media in particular, the game has begun to change.  Many of my fellow tarot readers have been delighted to find each other through this medium – and it has made our world a little more inclusive and a lot less lonely.

Recently, a new site launched that has stepped it up a notch and created a true community for us tarot lovers.  It’s called “Tarot Town” and is the brainchild of Marcus Katz and Tali Goodwin of Tarot Professionals .  Tarot Town is fun but don’t be fooled by the light tone – there is some SERIOUS tarot stuff going on here – classes, forums, discussions, groups and more!  Not only can you connect and make friends here – you can improve your skills, ask questions, learn about events and more.  If there was ever a Tarot Nirvana for us tarot freaks, I think I have found it here!

Of course, I had to ask Marcus and Tali about the creation and inspiration behind Tarot Town and this is what they had to say to me:

We were inspired to create Tarot Town by listening to the members of Tarot Professionals. We had been asked to provide a service to allow our members to network and socialise outside of the focused studies of Tarot such as Gated Spreads, the Diploma Course, Tarot Houses and other projects. When we looked at our existing forum we realised that it did not fulfil this purpose, although it is where we will continue to hold our Tarot course discussions.

We then considered our vision to promote high levels of Tarot education, and realised if we could find a way of providing such a social network, we would serve our own vision by opening it to the wider community. We also recognised that as our members had such a great deal of Tarot knowledge and experience we could connect them to those looking for help in their studies in an open and friendly fashion.

This resulted in us looking at many ways of accomplishing this aim – we reviewed existing sites, new technologies, voice/video systems, on-line teaching systems, and much more. We decided on a package of the “best of the best” even though this required a significant technical and financial investment. The site TAROT-TOWN was born from this research and our desire not to re-create the wheel.

With regard to what can we offer, there’s a line in Keat’s Hyperion which asks of the Titans, “What benefit canst thou, or all thy tribe, to the great world?” We asked ourselves the same question – as Living Oracles, what is it we bring to the world? In Tarot we remind ourselves that the Story is bigger than the individual images that arise in front of us – whether it be life or cardboard. In every divination, we are divined. We hope that Tarot Town will lead to more people coming to that experience of Tarot sooner, and deeper, through an accessible introduction. We are also shaking off the cobwebs – the Tarosophy book is all about mythbusting, and promoting brand new ideas, and Tarot Town is a reflection of that ethos, research and experience.

We’ve primarily aimed to make the Town vibrant, fun and free. There’s an optional Citizen rate of $1/month which ensures we can start to make the Town viable in the long-term and at the same time not exclude anyone on the basis of cost. Participants get access to great teaching experiences, video lessons, a one-stop window on selected Blogs and news, and most importantly peer guidance in a supportive environment. Citizens get special courses and privileges.

We are delighted that Rachel Pollack (age 13!) and many of our other Hon. Members of Tarot Professionals have joined to assist in connecting and sharing their wisdom. Our Deck Study groups are likely to have the deck designers and artists themselves in residence – such as Emily Carding in the Transparent Tarot Study Group.

There’s a readers exchange which has the unique feature of double-blind requests (you offer a reading to someone, but they don’t get informed of the request unless they offer a reading to you also) and peer-review feedback system – the Tarosophy STARS rating. We are also privileged to feature Beyond Worlds Radio Show as the Town’s official Radio Station!

Most important to our hearts is that we have provided a space for Tarot Townsfolk and Citizens to make their own home. The future of Tarot Town is in the hands of its inhabitants – it is an agile environment which will respond to the requirements of its citizens in an organic manner:

There once was an architect who did not build roads, or paths, or paving. He did not even include them in his plans and drawings. He laid grass down between the buildings which were open for all to walk.  Then as time went on, he watched where the grass was thinnest, and for where the beautiful curves and shortcuts, straight lines, dells and grooves that the passage of many people created. This was where he then created his paths – where feet naturally walked.

We have exciting plans already in pre-production for Tarot Town. We will be integrating our existing WIZIQ Learning Environment from Tarot Professionals into the Town Hekademia very soon for online courses in the Town. We are already well advanced in a 3d-Avatar environment for Tarot Conferences, Rituals, Discussions and Socialising! If you watch our promo video, you’ll see a sneak preview of the 3D world which will be ready by 2011.

Marcus Katz is the author of Tarosophy: Tarot to Engage Life, Not Escape It (pub. Salamander & Sons, August 2010) and the founder of Tarot Professionals. He is an MBA graduate, M.A. holder (Western Esotericism, University of Exeter) and currently 3-years into a 6-year PhD Thesis on the Teachings of Occult groups in the Western Esoteric Tradition. He is a therapist and trainer.

Tali Goodwin is the Marketing Director of Tarot Professionals and a member of the Chartered Institute of Marketing. Her career has also involved healthcare and occupational therapy. She has also practised Reiki healing.

No matter if you are a tarot professional, a newbie, or just curious, I’d invite you to stop by and take a look around.  You can find me as what else?  The Tarot Lady.  Hope to meet you there!

Blessings!

Theresa

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The Tarot Police Live Inside Of Your Head

July 4th, 2010

Recently, the noise around the controversial topic of “tarot certification” has gotten a bit louder and rather heated.  I’ve written posts with my thoughts, and various Blog Talk Radio shows have addressed the subject as well. It was refreshing to hear and assess the many varied viewpoints and perspectives on the subject, and as positive open dialogue often does, the process has revealed a few new thoughts that have piqued my interest and raised new concerns.

Some of the people who were pro-certification were unable to articulate how certification would serve the tarot community.  And then there were those who viewed certification as being “for the consumer” and a way to make the tarot reader “accountable”. Let’s pause and think about that for a minute. In my opinion, these statements present some serious questions that need to be answered.

First of all, words mean things. Words that are meant to sound nice and compelling on a brochure or one page web pitch for an organization are often glanced over without much critical attention paid to the actual practical implications, processes and actions they entail. From time to time, we all tend to get lost between glossy imagery, ad copy and our own fantasies of what a benign and wonderful organization might be like, but what is important is what those words actually mean for those who decide to actually sign on.

For instance, what exactly does “accountability” mean for tarot readers?  When someone says that their organization will hold a reader “accountable” how exactly do they intend to do that? And for what?  And with what financial backup?  What authority do they have? Tarot Police? Why would a client need an organization to handle complaints when we already have a legal system in place and specific laws to handle consumer related issues?  And more importantly, what is the certifying body’s business structure and how will that influence their criteria for “recourse”?

1. A certifying body needs to be clear about their business structure because there are different legal rules for each type of organization.  A non-profit, for example, has very strict legal requirements whereas a private club can create any body of laws they want to as long as they are not illegal.  The most likely model for a legitimate certifying body would be a non-profit because they don’t have any other business interests and would also have a board of directors, federal guidelines, mandatory meetings, as well as a democratic voting system which would insure that the community gets a voice in choosing leaders.  This would also lessen the possibility of a few self appointed tarot dictators being able to maintain absolute power.

2. Some of these certifying bodies claim to be for the consumer. The idea here is that a potential client could feel “safe” going to a “certified” reader.  (In all the years I have been reading, I have NEVER had a client ask to see my certification.  Most people who seek a tarot reader find us through word of mouth, not through searching some internet data base list of “certified” readers.) These organizations also say that they will offer a “recourse” if the client is unsatisfied or if the tarot reader doesn’t abide by the board’s “code of ethics”. These organizations should be able to clearly spell out the process for filing a complaint and have rules in place to insure that this doesn’t become a convenient forum for any crackpot to file grievances just to get freebies – or worse yet settle scores with rivals or slander other members with malicious intent.

3. Recourse needs to be defined clearly.  What kind of “recourse” can a certified tarot reader expect should a client file a complaint? Will they lose their certification?  Or will the reader be forced to issue a refund?  Or will nothing at all be done?  This is troubling to me because I do not want anyone telling me how to run my business.  I would never hand over that authority to anyone but myself.  Do I really want to put my business in a position where there is even a tiny threat of outside interference in my own policies?  If there is no clear idea of what this “recourse” could entail, then I encourage you to think long and hard before you put your name on the dotted line.  Know what you are getting into and what your rights are should a problem ever arise.

4. If a tarot reader loses their certification, would this be done publicly?  And if so, is there a policy in place to insure that the reader is not slandered by the certifying board?  How can we be sure that privacy and dignity would be preserved even for people who get uncertified?

5. Who polices the police? How can one be sure that the members of the certifying body practice what they preach?  In other words, if someone is going to try and monitor my business, what checks and balances are in place to make sure the powers that be also adhere to these standards?  And if they don’t – what is the recourse for THEM?  Would the tarot community be able to oust an unethical board member?

Although some of these certifying boards are quick to say that they don’t want to “police” the tarot community, aren’t they doing just that by creating arbitrary codes of ethics and then trying to enforce them amongst those who join up?  Is that piece of paper really worth going after if it gives someone else a license to tell you how to run your business?  Could there be legal implications and interference if the organization (either unwittingly or intentionally) steps into a situation that has real legal consequences?

I have seen all this and many more ugly things transpire first hand, over and over again in other supposedly “spiritual” oriented communities. Be it Tarot, Yoga, or just about any other community organization or “governing body” of any sort, the principle is simple, ancient and universal…power corrupts, and absolute power corrupts absolutely.  We all need to put on our thinking caps and pull out our best research skills and psychic guns when anyone is declaring to place some form of authority over another.

In a world that has become increasingly geared toward high speed internet instant gratification, we all need to hold back that urge to click and remember that words are not just set dressing for a sales pitch. Look at the fine print and read between the lines.

Blessings!

Theresa

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Talkin’ Tarot With Storm Cestavani

July 1st, 2010

Talkin’ Tarot With is a monthly feature designed to introduce my readers to different tarot readers from our wonderfully diverse community!  Each month, I’ll be asking various tarot readers 3 questions about their tarot philosophy and style, plus pointing you to their websites and blogs so that you can learn more about them!

This month’s guest almost needs no introduction – if you have been in the tarot world for any time at all, you’re bound to come across him.  He has a prolific Blog Talk Radio show and a shining presence that stands out amongst the crowd.  I’m honored to shine the spotlight on Storm Cestavani:

I started tuning in to Storm’s fabulous Blog Talk Radio Show “Psychic Friends Live” a while ago and was instantly drawn in by his vast knowledge of astrology and tarot.  I consider myself to have a good understanding of tarot – but Storm’s show allows me to deepen my knowledge and skills.  (Proof that you CAN teach an “old dog” new tricks!)  What I really love about Storm is not just his intelligence but his wit and compassion.  He always comes across as a pro-active reader, encouraging his listeners and clients to take responsibility for the quality of their lives, but doing this in a way that is never disrespectful or patronizing.  He is one of the most intelligent, aware and enlightened people I have ever had the pleasure to get to know.  Recently, I have had the great honor to begin working with Storm as a co-host for Psychic Friends Live every other Wednesday.  I’ve been enjoying the gig so far and am excited to work with someone I respect so much!

Storm is a Tarotist and humanistic astrologer, who has been in practice for over 20 years.  He has had numerous radio and television appearances, and has been featured in several national publications.  In 2010, Storm released his own Tarot candle line in collaboration with Coventry Creations (I love these candles and highly recommend them), and will be releasing his first publication “Inner Gold” later in the year.  In addition to hosting Psychic Friends Live, Storm is also a co-host on Beyond Worlds with Donnaleigh.  You can find out more about Storm’s shows, events, and publications by visiting http://www.stormcestavani.com

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What is your philosophy about tarot reading?

The word ‘philosophy’ is a tricky word.  The reason is that it involves a systematic approach, critical thinking, and reliance on rational arguments.   Philosophers for ages have placed the mystical (which is what I think Tarot is) in different categories because of its less than rational nature.   Although many people (ones much more intelligent than I) have looked at the tarot from a scientific perspective; it was done in a scientific manner to understand why the cards were interesting to people.   Why do these images seem to describe events occurring in the querent’s life?   Why do certain cards have a particular effect on those that read them?  Why do the cards seem to reflect the archetypal process of the Hero’s Journey, which is a mythic journey consistent with many religions, fairytales, and cultures?  These are the scientific questions that psychoanalysts with interest in the psychology of occult and occult magic found interesting.  However, those only interested in rational  thoughts and arguments would be less than interested in images printed on card stock because emphasis has been placed (in recent times despite the ever growing metaphysical field) on a scientific reality, and less on individual inner experiences.

For many, the use of the Tarot can be many things depending on their interest.   The cards can be viewed from a psychological, teleological, or a predictive lens.  They (the cards) seem to describe something that is churning up in the inner life of the individual.   Hermetic thought believed in the worldview of “as above, so below”.   I think in the 21st century, we can deepen this idea and make it more meaningful by understanding what is alive on the inside of us, is what will eventually occur on the outside.    By understanding our inner world, we are then able to control what occurs in our outer world.   It is a truly mystical experience, and what “occultism” (occult being defined as hidden or secret) is truly about.

How do you feel a client might get the most out of a reading with you?

My gut reaction to this question is, “I don’t know you would have to ask them.”   It really depends on the reasons that a client is approaching the tarot.  Many approach the cards with just a passing interest and because removing the veil and getting a glimpse into the future can be very entertaining.   However, I do not think that is the best reason to consult the cards.   To get the most out of a reading, I believe there needs to be a “rawness” factor, where all other means of understanding life has failed.  Let’s face reality; there are many better service providers for the problems in our lives, which probably would be more useful than a tarot reading.   However, I feel that when life is so confusing, and we are unsure of our life, and a certain amount of trepidation about the future occurs is the best time to consult the cards.   I find that the most insightful readings occur when the person asking the questions are not invested in the answer, they just need to know the answer.

It provides insight that frees them to move forward.

What is your best piece of advice for an aspiring tarot reader?

Never forget that we are dealing with the lives of people, and that the answers we give them  can change their lives in a significant way.

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A big thank you to Storm for taking time out of his busy schedule to answer these questions!  Don’t forget to tune into Storm’s show, Psychic Friends Live, every Monday through Friday at 1PM EST. And Storm will be gracing my Blog Talk Radio show on Sunday August 15th!  I can’t wait!

Blessings!

Theresa

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The Care And Feeding Of Tarot Readers

June 18th, 2010

If you’re thinking about becoming a professional tarot reader, I’d like to let you in on a little secret: tarot reading is hard, taxing work. You may wonder how this could be, as it appears like the reader is just sitting around tossing a few cards on a table and chatting with people.  Well, on the outside it may look like “having a good time” hanging with clients, but truth is, this career demands a lot from those who intend to walk the walk.  Many fellow readers tell me how drained  and burnt out they can feel at times.  Over the course of twenty years as a professional tarot reader, I too have experienced this myself and have had to develop tools to help me remain grounded and balanced.

Self awareness is the first key.  Over the years,  I’ve learned to become more sensitive to the warning signs when my energy is unbalanced:

  • Feeling depleted/ lethargic/ drained
  • Depression
  • Addictive behavior (for me excessive eating of sweets)
  • Putting on excessive weight
  • Less psychic sensitivity
  • Irritability/ impatience

When you are doing any sort of spiritual work, you collect negative energy from the people that seek your services.  Understand this: it’s not deliberate on the part of the client.  A tarot reader has to be open to the experience – and often times the querent may be coming with a lot of emotional baggage or heavy issues, which can be absorbed by the reader.  Once the reading is over and the client leaves, this energy remains with you.  And over time, this can build up, layer by layer and begin to affect the quality of your readings – or in extreme circumstances, your health.  You may not notice it right away but eventually if this negativity is not released, it will weigh you down and undermine your ability to remain a clear channel for your clients.

For me, this happens less these days as I make my self-care and spiritual health a priority.  I have found that it is vital to keep your psychic tools sharp, clean and maintained if you want to continue on this path without jeopardizing your sanity or health.  It all starts with boundaries.  I maintain the strictest of boundaries and put limits on a client’s access to me.  My guidelines, for example,  are:

  • All appointments must be scheduled in advance.  No last minute appointments
  • I do not answer “quick questions” over the phone
  • A 3 – 6 month wait between appointments (sometimes longer for some clients)
  • If a client sounds extremely distressed, I may make them wait until they are more calm and focused
  • No-shows get banned

You’ll have to choose what boundaries are comfortable for you.  Some readers are a bit more lax and it doesn’t seem to affect them at all.  For myself, I have found that I function better with structure and this allows my readings to remain objective.

In addition to establishing some ground rules with your clients, it is also important that you create time and space for self care.  Not only eating well and exercising, but also tending to your spiritual life.  There are a few things I do to keep my chakras balanced, energy stable and psychic channels clear:

  • Meditation - spending time with your inner self connects you to the guidance within and allows you to quiet the mind.  Meditation helps to work out your own issues and allows you to become friends with your SELF.  This leads to greater compassion, and that benefits YOU and your clients.
  • Exercise – negative energy can get stored in the body.  Taking time every day to do some sort of physical exercise (I prefer yoga) will insure you are not holding on to difficult emotions or bad energy, which could lead to illness or a feeling of being drained.
  • Pace yourself – I keep a schedule and only read tarot 4 days a week and I limit the number of  clients I see.  Avoid over doing it as that is the surest way to burn out.
  • Bodywork – Massage is a wonderful way to release trapped energy and restore the mind, body and spirit.
  • Eat well – it’s no secret that I love to eat.  Good nutrition paves the way for a healthy body and mind.  However, when I am absorbing too much energy from my clients, I’ll go on mad candy binges!  I try to limit my sweets but more importantly – if I am choosing to eat poorly, I look at my work and see what needs tweaking.  Perhaps a day off or an extra yoga practice could fend off the poor eating habits.
  • Salt baths – at times, my boundaries may be crossed by some really negative client and I find myself completely drained.  A salt bath will cleanse the aura and restore my sixth sense.  It’s very simple to do – fill a tub with warm water and about a cup (or more) of sea salt. Soak for a good 20 minutes.  Air dry.  This works wonders and I swear by it!
  • Candles – I’m a huge fan of candles for cleansing my tarot room and  charging myself and my cards.  I use the Tarot Tools candles by Coventry Creations, which were made especially for tarot readers!  The Energy Boost and Psychic Cleansing candles are a MUST in any tarot reader’s arsenal!

The wise tarot readers will make sure that they keep themselves in tip top shape, from head to toe to soul.  It makes all the difference  not just in the quality of the readings but in the quality of the reader’s LIFE.

Blessings!

Theresa

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How do you keep yourself sane and balanced? I’d love to hear your suggestions!  Post them in the comments section below!

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Guest Blogging At TABI Tarot Blog

June 5th, 2010

Recently,  Alison Cross at TABI (Tarot Association of the British Isles) asked me if I would write a post for their blog.  I was very honored by her request – but have to admit that it took a while for me to formulate an idea of “what” I could write for them.  The end result is a post on “Creating A Healthy Tarot Community”.  I am very passionate about community and hope that my simple guidelines give people positive food for thought – no matter what community they are part of.

You can read the post at TABI Tarot Blog.  Please check it out!  And I’d love to hear your thoughts – what do you feel could make the tarot community healthy and thriving?

A big thank you to TABI for giving me the opportunity to write for them!

Blessings!

Theresa

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Talkin’ Tarot With Suzi (aka Starcana)

June 3rd, 2010
Talkin’ Tarot With is a monthly feature designed to introduce my readers to different tarot readers from our wonderfully diverse community!  Each month, I’ll be asking various tarot readers 3 questions about their tarot philosophy and style, plus pointing you to their websites and blogs so that you can learn more about them!
I have to admit, my next guest was rather reluctant and I had to twist her arm.  She’s a bit shy about stepping into the spotlight so this required a lot of coaxing on my part.  I’m so happy and honored that she has agreed to do my little interview!  So, without further ado, I’d like to introduce you to Suzi Dronek, also known as Starcana!  Check out her profile and answers below:

I met Suzi through Twitter – in fact, she was one the first people to really connect with me in an authentic and friendly way.  I was drawn to her intelligent astrology and tarot posts as well as her humble, kind personality.  Over time we developed a friendship outside of Twitter and even collaborated on a blog and forum together.  It is always amazing to me that Suzi has such a large base of knowledge and she is always willing to share it without expecting anything in return. I’ve learned a lot from her prolific blogging and tweeting – and am still expanding my knowledge through her insights.  And get this – Suzi is also an incredibly talented graphic designer.  I’ve hired her to design a few things (including the banner above) and have been very pleased with her professionalism and artistic talent.  I feel very grateful to have her in my life and hope to continue to learn, collaborate and laugh together!

Suzi has over 20 years of practice in spiritual astrology, mystic tarot, and the intuitive arts. Her passion is to help others to help themselves, thru self-awareness and potential. She’s a contributor for ‘AstroCreeps and TarotFreaks‘ with graphics and ‘Tarot Affirmations‘. She also posts a monthly Astroscope, Tarotscope, and more, which can all be found on her website www.starcana.com.  You can also connect with Suzi on Twitter (her handle is Starcana).

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1. What is your philosophy about tarot reading?

Tarot is a splendid strategy that we use to reflect the power of our spirit. Each of us are dealt a hand in life. To be our very best, we must learn how to play our cards well. If we listen and pay close attention, the cards will teach us ‘what to play’ and ‘what to hold’. This intuitive tool stirs our imagination, daring us to think outside the box and to stray upon unfamiliar roads. Tarot will speak to us like a close friend, mysteriously ‘knowing’ what we are experiencing, while brilliantly advising us to be aware, and to choose our next step wisely. It’s a secret language, and through careful translation, we receive insightful messages to steer us onto a safer route in our relationships, profession, and inner self. Tarot is a powerful communicator that invites us to have a heart-to-heart conversation with our soul. As we thirst for more knowledge and experience enlightenment, interpretations begin to alter and branch out, allowing our spirit to do the same. Once we know its infinite depth and true potential, we can begin to understand why its messages will never be set in stone.


2. How do you feel a client might get the most out of a reading with you?

Clients want a reading, but they also want to be able to confess their soul to a confidant or best friend. They want to be themselves, without feeling judged. What good is the magic of an outstanding reading, if they are embarrassed to talk about their feelings, uncomfortable to ask the real questions, and fearful to participate in the reading? If a burden isn’t released and brought to light, their dilemma will continue to contaminate their journey and potential. When compassion is shared with a warm, fun, and friendly conversation, I hope to create a memorable welcome mat, that allows them a cool place to return. Truth and guidance are the meat and potatoes of a reading. The client will quietly listen and evaluate the reader’s sincerity and performance to determine if there is a genuine connection. I’m a problem-solver, and the only way for an issue to be truly addressed, is to approach it honestly while facing the cold hard facts. As a professional and a spiritual individual, my objective is to help others to help themselves, by locating weaknesses while generating realistic solutions. It is important to build a strong foundation of trust with expertise and integrity, so that a client not only wants to listen, but also has a desire to learn and grow.

3. What is your best piece of advice for an aspiring tarot reader?

Tarot is a tool for both intuition and awareness. It should always be used to empower and guide for a higher purpose. Honor and respect must be present in your readings, the way you treat your clients, and to yourself. Reading is an art which is based on interpretation. Everyone will always have an opinion, which is a matter of perspective only. Never let judgments get in the way of your own path. The best artists are those who stay true to themselves and their unique style. Originality will always stand out from the crowd, so when the books aren’t working anymore, trust your own intuitive technique. Research other readers and make notes as to what you like, and what you don’t like, in regards to how you would like to represent yourself and your readings. Last, to avoid those unspoken fears, learn and follow the law in your state for performing readings, always provide the client with free will, offer crisis numbers, and create your own terms of what you do, and what you will not do.

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A big thank you and hug to Suzi for taking the time to answer my questions and allowing me to put the spotlight on her!  My next mission in life is to get her to come on my Blog Talk Radio Show – watch for her soon – July 11th!

Blessings!

Theresa

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Before You Seek That Tarot Certification

May 20th, 2010

Certification is a topic that pushes a lot of buttons in the tarot community.  There are many conflicting viewpoints – all potentially valid  - on whether or not it is a necessity and both sides seem rather passionate in their opinions. My own personal belief is that it is difficult to truly certify someone’s ability to read tarot  and no piece of paper can guarantee that a reader is any good.

However, I am not writing this article to debate the pros and cons as Mike Hernandez did that job brilliantly on his blog post, “Tarot And Certification”.  My intention is to get you thinking about WHY you would want to get certified the first place as well as give you some really good points to consider when choosing a body to grant you that certification.

Contemplating your own perceived need for certification is the most important step you can take.   I recommend that you do not rush this process or take it lightly.  Self examination allows you to move into a decision with clarity and integrity.  Here are the issues you should meditate on:

1.  Is your need for certification based on a sense of insecurity about your abilities? Passing certification can give you a sense of “I can do this” and many readers find that this allows them to move forward with more confidence. That being said, if you struggle with self doubt,  this is a good indicator that you need more introspection about whether or not tarot reading is the right path for you.  I can tell you that this work is not easy by any stretch of the imagination and you need to be in a good, grounded place before you take the leap into making this into a career.  Other confidence boosting options would be continuing your tarot education with classes or mentoring from a teacher that you respect.  Continuous practice will develop your abilities and your faith in yourself more than any piece of paper or outside stamp of approval.

2. On the flip side, do you have the need to feel important or powerful? Are you attaching too much value to fancy titles such as “grand master”?  Do you like showing everyone that you are more knowledgeable than them?  Do you enjoy flaunting your “powers” and feel that a title allows you to be superior to your peers in the tarot community?  If any of these examples sound like you, it’s time to check yourself before you wreck yourself.  An egomaniacal tarot reader hell bent on power and prestige can do a lot of damage to clients. And consider this – does anyone ever really “master” tarot?  Seriously, get over yourself and the need to “stand out”.

3.  Is certification required in your state to operate as a tarot reader? There are different laws on the books for any kind of perceived “fortune telling” – in fact, some states outlaw it!  If it is mandatory to have some sort of license or certification, then this would absolutely be an important step to take.  Be sure to check your state’s laws and see what they require in order to get your papers together.  The last thing you need is the long arm of the law shutting down your tarot operation!

4.  Do you feel certification will make you more accepted by your peers? I’ll let you in on a little secret – most of us professional tarot readers are NOT certified.  You don’t need to get certification to “fit in”.   As long as you have something to contribute to the community, you will be welcomed with open arms.  Most tarot readers are a friendly lot and could care less about whether or not you are certified, a master, an author or whatever.  Just be yourself!

If you have reflected carefully on those questions and decided that certification is for you, then you need to do your research on the different certifying operations available so that you can make a choice that is most beneficial to your circumstances.  Once you have chosen a organization to certify you, here are the things you need to pay attention to so that your certification is authentic and not some bogus piece of paper by some slip shod outfit designed to take your dollars and feed your ego:

1.  Legitimate business structure. What kind of business are they?  Are they non-profit, LLC, sole proprietorship, or a corporation?  Are they legally recognized, meaning did they file all the proper papers?  Are they registered with the Better Business Bureau and if so, what is their record?   If they cared enough to do their business properly, then that is a good sign that they are SERIOUS and not someone who just threw up a shingle and declared themselves “certifiers” randomly.

2.  Financial transparency. Before I turn over my hard earned bucks to a certifying body, I like to know where my money is going.  Are their financial statements available to the general public?  What are their intentions for the money they receive?  A certifying organization that is not a non- profit corporation may not “have to” reveal its financial reports, but transparency would be a positive sign and an indicator that they are truly doing this as a service with regard for the community.  The danger of for profit certifying bodies is that it is easier for them to operate as “dream vultures”, preying on insecure tarot aspirants who feel the need for validation.

3.  Who is running the show? Are these people contributing to the tarot community in a positive way?  Or are they divisive?  Do they “lord power” over others?  Be very careful that you pick an organization that you are proud to be a member of.   If you cannot feel 100% good about the people who are granting you a title, then you need to step back and reconsider.  Accepting a title from people whose ethics and validity are in question smacks of greed and self importance.

4.  What is the lineage of the people who certify? The people who run the certification board should be able to clearly and easily inform the general public of where they got their own certifications.  Who gave them their title?  How long ago did they receive their certification?  What processes did they have to go through in order to achieve certification?  There should be no mystery or evasion to these simple questions. If they granted certification to themselves, this is a conflict of interest and a huge red flag.  Steer clear of any organization that cannot give a detailed and honest answer about their own origins.

5.  What is the process you will have to go through in order to get certified? They should also be able to clearly articulate what you’ll be expected to do.  What guidelines do they have established?  Do they recognize all forms of tarot reading (ex: therapeutic, intuitive, Golden Dawn, etc.) and what is the criteria to insure that all methods are recognized? Is their testing objective?  Is the cost reasonable or affordable for your circumstances?  Do the benefits offered feel like a sound value for the sticker price?  (Please do not go into debt for a plaque to hang on your wall!)

If you have taken the time to do the required quality introspection and research and still come to the conclusion that certification is the path you want or need to take, go for it!

All that said, let me share my personal take on this with you.  No certificate that you frame and hang on a wall can replace or compare to the tears in my client’s eyes when I hit the nail on the head in their reading, the word of mouth referrals that have sustained my business for 20 years or the numerous requests to study with me personally.  My validation comes from LIVING and DOING tarot, and the clients that benefit from the guidance the tarot can offer.

Blessings!

Theresa

What are your thoughts on certification? Are you certified?  If so, how has it helped you? If not, why?  Post your comments below.

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